Post # 1
He left me. I came home from work… he had his stuff packed. Totally blindsided. And all I could say was “Ok, i understand” in between hyperventilating and sobbing. Ultimately, I just love him and I want him to be happy. He is a good person, he just wasn’t in love with me.
Good luck to all you waiting bees out there.
Post # 4
I’m so very sorry. My heart goes out to you.
Post # 5
I’m so sorry! At least you get to feel like you kept your dignity and didn’t lash out angrily or beg him to stay. I hope things get easier for you…
Post # 6
@JerseyGirlLaur: Exactly. At least I can say I was mature about it. Still, so painful.
Post # 8
I am very sorry. (((hugs!)))
Post # 9
Wow! what a shocker. I went back and read your other posts. I am soo sorry, but I know that you will find the right one. Be good to yourself.
Post # 10
OMG way to come home. Im so sorry this happened to you, especially like that!! *hugs*
Post # 11
I’m so sorry! Reading your other posts, I totally see why you’re blindsided – wasn’t he just apologizing that he hasn’t gotten to save enough for the ring?! I’m wondering if this is cold feet…sometimes guys tend to do that before the engagement instead of before the wedding, maybe all the comments and proposal deadlines from family made him freak out. Not saying that would make it okay. I’m so sorry!
Post # 12
I am so sorry… I can imagine what a shock. I looked back at your other posts and it sounded like things were going OK for the past few weeks.
I hope you find comfort in knowing you’re supported…at least on the Bee… and that one day, in due time, you have closure.
Post # 13
OMG! I too went back and looked at your posts and I remember reading them thinking things were going well! What did he say? I’m so sorry *hugs*
Post # 14
I’m so sorry 🙁 I hope you start to feel better soon.
Post # 15
Thank you so much everyone. I am trying to just get through each day. Did I mention that he intentionally left a bottle of vodka, cranberry juice, and a pint of ben and jerry’s? He paid next month’s rent in full and had a check for half of our deposit ready for me. He had it all planned out. I assume he used the “ring fund” to break up with me. I am shattered.
Some of you had asked what he said. He just said “We need to talk. I’m moving out tonight.” and that he loved me and that he needed to do it for himself. I think he just realized he didn’t want to marry me. I’m just heartbroken. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Ultimately, he is a great guy and I just want him to be happy–even if it isn’t with me.
I’m really lucky to have amazing family and friends who have just been so supportive. My brother sent me flowers!
Good luck to all of you. Thank you for your support!
Post # 16
I am sorry girl. I also went back and read some of your posts. ):