(Closed) no longer waiting the ring is gone

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I’m sorry. That is terrible. I hope it was a mutual descision. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

Oh no, I’m so sorry. Are you sure or has it just gone missing? Maybe he re-hid it?

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

OMG. How did you find out? Are you quite sure he actually returned it?

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Are you sure? Did something happen?

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I am so sorry you are going through this.  I know that I don’t know the details of the situation, but returning the ring seems quite cruel to me.  I think that some men don’t realize how difficult it not for us to not have any control over this.  We are expected to wait patiently and prettily while keeping our mouths shut about our feelings on the matter that so greatly affects our lives.    I don’t know what he was referring to when he said you expect too much, but returning the ring seems like a clear message that he doesn’t want to marry you.  That’s fine if he means it, but if it turns out that he didn’t mean it and just did it to hurt you, I would be concerned.  What do you think you’re going to do now?  **hugs**

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m so sorry to hear that. Like PP said, that’s CRUEL. In all honesty, if my guy was dangling it over my head that way- I’d be out of there.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That sounds both cruel and immature. Im so sorry, he sounds like a child.

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yeah, sorry, but he sounds like a jerk.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

(Sorry this was a double-post)

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Look, I’m sorry, I barely know anything about you two or your relationship, but I can’t imagine what you could tell me that would change my mind about this: If I were you, and he thought it was ok to dangle a ring over my head, then tell me I fucked up by being impatient and he returned the ring to force us back to square one, I would be out the door in less than a heartbeat. I can’t tell from your posts if you’re trying to work it out with him or if you two have broken up, but that’s a horrible way to treat you. Absolutely unacceptable and vile form anyone who is supposed to love you, respect you, and want the best for you. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m so sorry honey. Obviously we don’t know much about your situation, but from what you have said that he showed you the ring and then complained about your impatience, what did he expect? You deserve to be treated much better.  

Keeping you in my prayers <3 

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