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    honeymead    April 2012   Santa Barbara CA

    Okay, so I have four bridesmaids, and can't really decide which one of them should be my MOH, if indeed, I should have one at all.  Here's the breakdown:

    Ms. C: good friend, met through FI and good at planning

    Ms. V: good friend since 8th grade, but grown apart recently, kinda flaky

    Ms. H: friend since high school, likes to do things "by the seat of her pants"

    Ms. D: FSIL with social anxiety, but good at planning

     

    I just don't know what to do.  I originally figured Ms. V, because I've been friends with her the longest, but I haven't seen her in over a year and every time she comes to town, makes zero effort to hang out(I used to call and make plans only have them fall through for reason XYZ, so I stopped & the ball's in her court now as far as I'm concerned). 

    Now I'm thinking of not having one at all, and just doing everything by committee. 

    Advice?

     
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    Bostongrl25    December 2017  

    I dont think I will have one. I'm going to have my 2 FSIL's be bridesmaids and I think thats it :)

     
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    kelbell    September 23, 2012  

    It is your day always remember that! If you dont want a MOH then dont have one. I think the decision of a MOH should be a hands down choice.. if you cant think of anyone... then maybe if you are close to a sibling or mother your mother.... just an idea:)

     
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    ORella2012    June 1, 2012  

    I chose my brother and called him my "attendant of honor" I've been a MOH before and didn't really do anything special except sign the marriage certificate. Anyone can do that. So if you don't want one, don't have one!

     
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    Mrs.ChubbyBunny    October 1, 2011   Texas

    It isn't required to have a MOH. It was difficult for me to choose one and eventually I just went with the one that has been the best friend to me over the years. If you don't have a clear cut choice, don't feel as if you have to have one.

     
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    AlmostMrsPeterse    December 17, 2011   Alabama

    I'm not having one. I have my 3 sisters as bridesmaids and I'm not picking between them. If I have a question: I just mass text all three and get their responses. I don't need an MOH for anything.  I don't really see why anyone needs one.  It is your decision, but you don't have to have one.

     

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