- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
so my Maid/Matron of Honor went crazy n freaked out on me over someone telling her that if she didn’t have anything nice to say,then don’t say anything at all …quote unquote n a friendship of 17yrs has ended
anyways enough of that…now there is no Maid/Matron of Honor and my sister a bridesmaid told my mom that she needed to throw me a bridal shower…
i go to my parents house and my mom brings up having a jack n jill shower? i was confused n when i got home i did some research
apparently its a male n female shower?
i think its nice that she wants to do this, but this is how she explained it to me
“ill make my famous pulled pork. We can invite his parents n grandparents n his brother n sister ( best man and bridesmaid) then we can invite your grandma n sister n do a small lil party.
I don’t even know what to think…to me this is sounding like an engagement party meet the family all over again type party, dont get me wrong i’m greatful for the thought, but i’m kinda hurt that the bridemaids dont care to do a real bridal shower for me …i would really love to have an all girl shower and maybe i’ll actually start to feel like a bride? idk if this makes sense or not, but for some reason i feel like im missing out on all the bridal experiences…
I have many girlfriends that are getting married right now and all their girls are planning them awesome bridal showers with all girls and themes and fun girly games and they are sooo excited for their showers.
sigh idk how to feel…any thoughts on how i should handle this?