No more MOH

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8282 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Wow. That sounds pretty bad considering your wedding is in a week! Are you having a formal wedding?

Post # 4
2878 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Whaaaat? That’s crazy! I assume she’s your best friend if she’s your MOH… and now she all of a sudden wants nothing to do with your wedding? Wtf?

But.  Just have your bridesmaids!  You only want people there who are going to support you anyway.

Post # 5
2665 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@Tigerlilybride:  Ok so I will admit that i totally creeped your PP’s for some context… and there was none. 

Weeeelll… except for the weirdness with the Best-lady strip poker thing.  How did that turn out BTW?

So from your OP, I can see one of two things  happening.

1. She truly believes that your SO sucks and is an abusive asshole/ just does not like him.

or 2. Has decided that she no longer wants to be your friend anymore.  

Either way that sucks .

I am wondering if there is anything that would have made you notice a strain on your relationship with her. Since she HAD to know that by dropping out of the wedding and the Bach. party  would ultimately result in the ending of the friendship.


Also, why did you cancel  your Bach. party? Why couldnt you go out with your other BMs?

Post # 6
1355 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Tigerlilybride:  Does she personally know your FI and the way you two are together? It seems kind of weird that she would listen to someone else randomly.

Post # 7
1482 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

@Tigerlilybride:  just sounds like a horrible friend to be honest. Even if i hated my best friends man i dont think i could do that to her. Just look forward and focus on making it the best time ever for you.

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