(Closed) No more waiting!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1278 posts
Bumble bee

It sounds like you are very content and very in love.  

Post # 4
327 posts
Helper bee

@Koi Fishie:  That is truly wonderful that you feel this enlightened and from your realization “Well, right now I have his love and he has mine, so what’s there to anxiously wait for?” It really says it all and even helps me in my relationship, so thanks and good for you πŸ™‚

Post # 6
22 posts

Wow. I hope I can internalize this great message…I think by dwelling so much on the lack of ring/proposal, even though it’s been 4.5 years, I’ve been doing the opposite of what I want and actually pushing him away. I have a hard time focusing on the present in all aspects of my life (part of why grad school has been so hard for me), but I think the area where it’s hurt me the most is in our relationship. I’m so grateful that I have him to hold my hand through this excruciating road to a PhD, but if I don’t change my tune soon, I might not anymore…

Post # 8
785 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Koi Fishie:  He is my future but, more importantly, he is my present

Love this! And congrats on you coming to peace with it πŸ™‚

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