No one is sending back their RSVPs!!

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7736 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’d get on the phone and call people. :/  Maybe your mom or FMIL would help with their respective sides?

Post # 4
565 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Pavilion at Rocky Neck State Park

Same exact thing happened to me. The only thing you can do is start calling people. 

Post # 5
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would assume anyone who’s ignoring you is a ‘no’, unfortunately…

Post # 6
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

When is your deadline? About 70% of mine came in the day before and of.

Post # 8
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

If the RSVP date has come and gone and they won’t reply to an email and ignore a phone call…..consider them a NO and if you want to be like me…’ll write them off for the next year or so and never invite them to anything ever again.

I get that people are busy but at a certain point it’s just rude and, imo, total bullshit.

Post # 9
497 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Did you send out save the dates? If so, how far in advance did you send them. I think that with the wedding a month away, if folks haven’t respondedand can’t be reached via phone, consider them a “no.”

Post # 10
2833 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Since you have a destination wedding, and you just sent your invites out 2 months ago I can’t say I’m surprised by the response. People need more time to save and plan! I would count them as no’s because if there were planning on coming to your wedding, you wouldn’t be having such a hard time getting a response from them. Just enjoy the people that do come to your wedding. Don’t stress out about it.

Post # 11
621 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Well I think she’s super stressed out b/c at this pt. less than 10 I’m guessing maybe 6 are actually comming…but i sadly have to agree if you don’t hear back you have to mark the as no…

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