Post # 1
Just had a mini discussion with my wonderful man:
He will not propose in Aruba, and for some reason, I feel as if 10 millions tons were lifted off my shoulders.
Let me explain: I now have the freedom to enjoy our vacation (we are leaving Monday) without wondering if he will or will not propose. This discussion just saved me some pretty tough emotions after the vacation, so I’m happy about that.
This discussion came about him asking how I felt about getting married in a court (like now) so there is no risk of deportation (I am from Quebec living in the US) once I am done with my masters program (ending a year from now).
I asked (hihihi) why don’t you just want to propose now and we can actually make it official… well apparently he’s got some grand proposal plan that he wants to be super special… I have a feeling it involves something like Paris…
Aaaaanyways, I feel like I have the best of both worlds:
– he wants to make it official by law (court, now)
– he wants to make it ultra special (thus the not now official proposal)
Knowing this makes the “waiting” so much more enjoyable 🙂
Post # 3
@kmsw: I’m glad you were able to communicate and things are going well!! Always a great thing when everyone’s on the same page. Enjoy Aruba! Very jealous…
Post # 4
Well THAT was a lie… He is SOOOOO Sneaky!!!
I am engaged 🙂
Post # 5
And the most important part?? You were able to enjoy your vacation without worrying about getting engaged. Best of all worlds!!
Post # 6
@NVACat: You are so right! I hadn’t even thought about that 🙂 Thank You!
Post # 7
HAHA I read your post without reading the post afterwards, and was immediately like
“He’s probably messing with her and going to propose in Aruba.”
Yay you!!!! Ring pictures!!!!
Post # 8
@the_future_mrs: haha you are good! I was completely blind sided… until I realized a few indicative clues which I will post in lenght when I return home… for now, i’m on my balcony while Fiance (!!!!!) is sleeping -> it’s only 6:40AM here.
Post # 9
Boys can be soooo sneakY! Enjoy the rest of your vacation with your FIANCE!