(Closed) No Say Yes To The Dress Moment

posted 5 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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662 posts
Busy bee

You’ll have that perfect moment on your wedding day when you’re all dolled up! 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Day_In_The_Life:  I had the same reaction as you- I knew it was the dress, but I didn’t cry or get all emotional. Don’t worry about it and enjoy your dress! 

I think shows like say yes to the dress really overhype that moment. As long as your happy with the dress, that’s all the matters

Post # 5
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1308 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I saw all smiles, too! I did not tear up, I was just so happy in it.

Post # 6
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1654 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Same here, no tears from my mom Either. My aunt was a different story!

Post # 7
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827 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

No tears from me or anyone else, but we knew it was my dress!

Post # 8
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3377 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I didn’t tear up either. FI’s aunt sort of did, but looking at the fact that I’m putting it on with my accessories on Friday when she brings up my dress from Corvallis so I can see it all together, I’m going to be a mess!

Where did you end up going? 

Post # 9
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246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Mom, FMIL and I got teary eyed about wedding dresses in general, but not any one in particular. When I found my dress I’d describe it more as a slow obsession.

Post # 10
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10456 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’m not a cryer either. That isn’t a bad thing! You never have to worry about ruining your makeup 😉

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I didn’t have a “moment” either.  I thought something was wrong with me!  

Ultimately, the decision was made once I realized that I had been comparing every single dress I had on to the one I ended up choosing!  

Post # 12
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11242 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I just went shopping with FMIL and one bridesmaid, but I didn’t have a moment, either. I love my dress, but I’m not sure I would have, even if I’d not taken the Xanax beforehand. I was actually more worried about the money, since it would have been really beneficial to purchase it right then, but I didn’t have the money, and had just gone for fun. I was actually going to wear my grandma’s beautiful lace dress.

Post # 13
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379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I just smiled too and my heart was beating super fast! 🙂

Post # 14
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189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Here was my moment:

After trying on dress after dress at 3 boutiques away from home and giving up for a month, I went with just my mom to a local store. I was convinced I wasn’t going to find anything, and she just said calmly that I would. I tryed on tons of dresses there too, and finally found one I didn’t hate. 

I looked at it and thought, this is kinda nice. I even got off the stupid pedestal and walked in it. It was different but nice… and best of all it was me. I felt like me. Not like a princess, because that’s not me. Not like a model or a celebrity or anything. Just me, the girl my FI asked to marry. Me, only a little elegant and bridal. It was right, and I loved it, but it was a decision I made analytically more than anything. I was smiling, and I was loving myself in it, but I didn’t cry and neither did my mom. we just said, yup, this it! 

Post # 15
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11242 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@ninjachc:  Ha, mine was pretty logical/analytical as well. I tried on some other silhouettes that weren’t as flattering and were just SO heavy/hot, and/or that I couldn’t sit down/move comfortably in. I was like, “This one is pretty, flattering, and comfortable. Sold.” I also got lots of perks for purchasing the dress there at my first appointment (discounts on accessories, bridesmaids dresses, and tuxes).

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