- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
So bees here is the thing… No shower for me I am trying not to be sad since it was (sort of) my decision…. Here is the deal:
1. I was married before so my family has already been through the shower thing…the 1st thing my mom said to me when we got engaged was well you are not having another shower….
2. I am having a destination wedding and my bridesmaids already have to pay to fly and stay so I figured it would help them a bit to not put in $ for a shower.
3. We are having a destination wedding and only inviting 70 people from are large group of family and friends so some people are not invited to the destination, but we will have a second reception at home….. but it still complicates things in my mind regarding the shower.
So I decided no shower… I am trying to just let it go we really don’t need anything, I just love a good party… but I guess I am getting 2 receptions so I should just settle down.
Sorry this was such a vent / rant!