(Closed) No xmas proposal :(

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

If you’ve talked about getting engaged and you know its going to happen this upcoming year, I would try to leave it alone. My good friend got very upset when her boyfriend didn’t propose over the holidays (he felt it was very cliche and not as special) and it eventually led to their separation. She found out shortly after they had broken up that he was planning on a special “random weekend” that would completely surprise her.

If you’ve spoken with him about it, and you know its coming, he could just be misleading you so that you are completely surprised. Try not to press the issue and I hope that it is very special for you!

Good luck!

Post # 4
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384 posts
Helper bee

I know how you feel and I’m so sorry.  I will say that you should indeed be happy that you have a timeline.  I don’t have one of those and to me a timeline would be as good as the actual proposal. 

He could very well be trying to throw you off track.  Sort of sounds that way to me….

Post # 5
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

I am glad you have a timeline whether it is for real or he is using it to throw you off. I find timelines a lot easier to deal with than just a blind “it will happen, be patient” response. Good luck and keep us posted.

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