NO you can't wear fucking jeans to my wedding. (vent)

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

You’re definitely not a shitt person and I’m sure it’s been very stressful. Some people will just not listen regardless. I fully expect a good portion of our guests to wear jeans, specifically FI’s family. And you know what, I said screw it. Yes we’re spending tens of thousands of dollars on the wedding but we want them there and idc what they wear. I’m sure the day of it will be the last thing on my mind. Don’t stress yourself out!

Post # 5
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437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Hahahah get it girl! Let the beast out, you’ve done well so far to keep it tamed!!!

Post # 7
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7893 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

We’re talking about an uncle, not an immediate family member. He’ll be in few if any family photos, and probably at the back. Him wearing jeans will only make him look silly.

I get your annoyance, but if he’s the only person doing this, it’ll be better to ignore it.

Post # 9
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1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Don’t think you are shitty, I think you are stressed.  Now grab your purse and let’s get a drink;)

Post # 11
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939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  Oh – you’re in good company.  I do breast cancer research.  I thought I read in a thread somewhere that you said you were a scientist.

 

Post # 13
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2170 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  You’re too much. I remember some of your previous over the top posts. Are you aware that no one cares about your wedding as much as you do? That’s a fact.

Post # 14
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2273 posts
Buzzing bee

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  preach it sistah. let it all out. Unleash the zilla. Better to do it at us than your family and start a whole story of drama. Hang in there girl, it’ll be worth it in the end.

Man I kinda want to dress up and go to your wedding so I can ask people “Oh we could wear jeans? I thought it said formal… I guess I misread the wedding website.. orrrrr you just.. can’t read…” 

Post # 16
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769 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  Ugh, I know that feel, bro. Sometimes you just need to rage. Good luck with school 🙂

ETA: FI’s cousin’s then-girlfriend showed up to his sister’s wedding in a grey jersey maxi dress (like the kind you get from Wal-Mart for $5 on clearance), with a bright pink bra showing through, flip flips and a sweatband. I would have dumped her in the lake, tbh.

 

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