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  • poll: What accessory would you use to tie the girls together?
    I like the necklace! Matches wedding colors and goes with each dress. : (1 votes)
    7 %
    I like the sash idea! : (1 votes)
    7 %
    Why not make a test sash and have your girls try it out? : (2 votes)
    14 %
    You don't have to do anything to coordinate them together. : (7 votes)
    50 %
    I have a better idea! : (3 votes)
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    whitesonnet    June 26, 2010   Detroit, MI

    Most of my girls have bought their dresses already, with the exception of my MOH. She's got one picked out (on the far left) but is looking to buy one off the rack because she just had her first baby and is trying to lose weight. (Sorry for the ugly black background. Trying to do this in Powerpoint.)

    Non-matching dresses and coordinating accessories :  wedding non matching mis matching bridesmaids sash Bridesmaids Mashup

     

    Anyways, I'm trying to come up with some kind of accessory to tie everything together. I was originally thinking about some green/blue jewelery in the wedding colors:

    Non-matching dresses and coordinating accessories :  wedding non matching mis matching bridesmaids sash Necklace

     

    But now I'm trying to decide if DIY white flower sashes might be a potential option. With my horrible Powerpoint (and lack of Photoshop) skillz, I put this together:

    Non-matching dresses and coordinating accessories :  wedding non matching mis matching bridesmaids sash With Sashes

     

    What do you think? Necklace? Sashes? Something else to tie them together? I'm already having them hold solid white bouquets for the ceremony, but I want them to be a little more recognizable. For those of you with non-matching girls, what are you doing to tie them together?

     
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    I voted for not doing anything.  I think that both the necklace and sash are really pretty separately and would even look good with some of the dresses, but neither looks good with all of them.  With some of the necklines of the dresses, the necklace wouldn't look right.  (I'm thinking about the halters.  I personally hate wearing necklaces with halters.)  And then the sash won't look right with some of the dresses, especially the third one, I think.  Matching bouquets should be enough to tie everything together, IMO.

     
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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    I agree with Boston Bee.  I love the dresses, and I love the necklace, but I don't think it would work for all of them.   I think the sash looks cute with a few, but my MIL wore the dress your MOH is looking at.  In real life, a sash wouldn't work well, and I think that would be the case with some of the other dresses too.

     
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    cvbee    August 13, 2010   canada

    They will be holding the same flowers, i'm guessing, and that will bring the look together.  Same shoe could be a great touch too.  No one will notice the necklace and the sash may look like a cheap fix and emphasize the issue more. 

    They will look great together. 

     
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    MissScarlet    March 11, 2011   Fort Worth, Texas

    I agree that the sashes and belts might be too much and might not coordinate well with all of the dresses. I'm doing non-matching dresses with my bridesmaids as well, and what I think I'll end up doing is have them wear matching earrings and/or shoes.

     
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    pohget    September 18, 2011   Australia

    I think they will look great without anything. I love a mismatched bridal party.

    What I really want to know is: where can I get that necklace?! It is beautiful and perfect and exactly what I'm looking for!

     
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    jadeblue    July 31, 2010   Western Massachusetts

    My maids are not matching either. I gave them a color palette to work with and actually have no idea what any of them are wearing yet although they're leaning toward 'goddessy' styles in crinkle chiffon.

    We're thinking about coordinating hair accesories to tie their looks together. (Maybe: http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=42035887 or: http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=36239248). I like these because they would work with up or down hairstyles.

     
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    whitesonnet    June 26, 2010   Detroit, MI

    Yeah, I was concerned about the necklace and the necklines contrasting, so that's when I started thinking about sashes.

    @pohget - That necklace set is from David's Bridal. You can order it through their website in a few colors.

    @jadeblue - I like the hair flowers, but I'm not a big feather fan. I thought about headbands, but I'm leaving the hairstyles up to them, so I don't know about that either.

    I really want something to tie them together once they are on the dance floor. They won't carry their flowers all night!

     
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    How about matching earrings?  It's more subtle than a necklace or a sash, but that could work to tie them together.

     
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    nickles    September 1, 2010  

    What about a fabulous bracelet or some bangles? My maids will all be mis-matched with dresses chosen from the "fall" colors of our wedding, and I'm leaning towards bracelets. There are many styles and prices to choose from, it's easy to find multiples of them, they're visible, and it's something they'll all wear again...I might even buy one for myself as a way to have a keepsake of our special bond from that day :o)

     

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