- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Since I’m new to this all, I’m still sorting out all the small and not so small details. 🙂 One thing I know I’d like to be involved in is pre-marital counseling. I guess I’m just stuck on all the who/what/where/when stuff.
My fiance isn’t religious at all, and though I was raised in a religious houeshold, my personal religious beliefs feel separate from my feelings in relation to therapy, and I’d rather have my religious feelings and therapeutic stuff exist in separate relms.
That being said, how does one go about finding someone to provide pre-marital counseling, who isn’t necessarily a clergy person? I currently see a therapist for my own stuff, and could probably ask her for recommendations, but besides that I’m at a loss. How have other people found therapists? And how soon/how often did you meet with the person?