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I dont have the wording with me but we read Corethians (sp?) and The Irish Blessing at our non-denominational wedding.
We are having a religious ceremony, but our reading is actually from a children's book called, I Like You by Sandol Stoddard. I think Mrs. Candy Corn had her brother read it at her wedding. I love the book and it represents our relationship so perfectly!
In addition to our scripture texts, we had an excerpt from The Velveteen Rabbit, which you can read here: http://weddings.about.com/od/yourweddingceremony/a/NovelReadings.htm
I compiled a few way back in the day when I was looking for some... I'm attaching the word docs here for you (or anyone) to grab!
We used two Kahlil Gibran readings (one of our favorite writers) - On Marriage and On Friendship. Just google them!
Good luck !
Thanks hive! I'm gonna go get my bookmarking on, Ember - that list is huge! And thanks Penguin, I love those, too. Whoohoo for getting this ceremony on a roll!
Here are our two:
From Le Petit Prince
“Go and look again at the roses. You will understand now that yours is unique in all the world. Then come back to say goodbye to me, and I will make you a present of a secret.”
The little prince went away, to look again at the roses.
“You are not at all like my rose,” he said. “As yet you are nothing. No one has tamed you, and you have tamed no one. You are like my fox when I first knew him. He was only a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But I have made him my friend, and now he is unique in all the world.”
And the roses were very much embarrassed.
“You are beautiful, but you are empty,” he went on. “One could not die for you. To be sure, an ordinary passerby would think that my rose looked just like you– the rose that belongs to me. But in herself alone she is more important than all the hundreds of you other roses: because it is she that I have watered; because it is she that I have put under the glass globe; because it is she that I have sheltered behind the screen; because it is for her that I have killed the caterpillars (except the two or three that we saved to become butterflies); because it is she that I have listened to, when she grumbled, or boasted, or ever sometimes when she said nothing. Because she is my rose.
…“And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”
“What is essential is invisible to the eye,” the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember.
“It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.”
“It is the time I have wasted for my rose–” said the little prince, so that he would be sure to remember.
“Men have forgotten this truth,” said the fox. “But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed. You are responsible for your rose…”
“I am responsible for my rose,” the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember.
From The Decemberists' 'Red Right Ankle'
This is the story of your red right ankle
And how it came to meet your leg
And how the muscle bone, and sinews tangled
And how the skin was softly shed
And how it whispered “Oh adhere to me
For we are bound by symmetry
And whatever differences our lives have been
We together make a limb
This may sound funny because it is actually something called "christian wedding" ...but it only has one "god" line and we took it out. I saw Mrs Avo use it and it really spoke to me. I would cute and paste my text....but weddingbee gets a little weird when you past stuff....so instead check out this link
http://cheapwife.blogspot.com/2009/10/reading.html
@mandalynn - we're having "I Like You" read too! I love that poem!!!
@spraguebride Oh, I love that reading. That's going at the top of my list. So excited to read through the others!
We're having "We Walk Together" By Sue Boynton read. I LOVE that poem. I think I posted it on another thread a couple of months ago.
This one is a little unconventional but really suits our fun personality (I am considering moving it to the reception because it may not fly with FMIL)
Yes I'll Marry you
Pam Ayres
Yes, I'll marry you, my dear,
And here's the reason why;
So I can push you out of bed
When the baby starts to cry,
And if we hear a knocking
And it's creepy and it's late,
I hand you the torch you see,
And you investigate.
Yes I'll marry you, my dear,
You may not apprehend it,
But when the tumble-drier goes
It's you that has to mend it,
You have to face the neighbour
Should our labrador attack him,
And if a drunkard fondles me
It's you that has to whack him.
Yes, I'll marry you,
You're virile and you're lean,
My house is like a pigsty
You can help to keep it clean.
That sexy little dinner
Which you served by candlelight,
As I do chipolatas,
You can cook it every night!
It's you who has to work the drill
and put up curtain track,
And when I've got PMT it's you who gets the flak,
I do see great advantages,
But none of them for you,
And so before you see the light,
I do, I do, I do!
This one also suits us to a T
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiELDUYnQfA (the video its worth watching made me laugh and cry at the same time)
A lovely love story by Edward monkton (the transcript) My big sis (MOH) will read this she has real character and is the only one who will be able to pull off all the voice changeovers
The fierce dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice. Although it was cold he was happy in there after all it was his cage.
Then along came the lovely other dinosaur
The lovely other dinosaur melted the dinosaurs cage with kind words and loving thoughts
I like this dinosaur thought the lovely other dinosaur. Although he is fierce he is also tender and he is funny. He is also quite clever although I will not tell him this for now
I like this lovely other dinosaur thought the dinosaur. She is beautiful and she is different and she smells so nice. She is also a free spirit which is a quality I much admire in a dinosaur
But he can be so distant and peculiar at times thought the lovely other dinosaur. he is also overly fond of things. Are all dinosaurs so overly fond of things?
But her mind skips from here to there so quickly thought the dinosaur. She is also uncommonly keen on shopping. Are all lovely other dinosaurs so uncommonly keen on shopping?
I will forgive his peculiarity and his concern for things thought the lovely other dinosaur. For they are part of what makes him a richly charactered individual.
I will forgive her skipping mind and her fondness for shopping thought the dinosaur. For she fills our lives with beautiful thoughts and wonderful surprises. Besides I am not unkeen on shopping either
Now the dinosaur and the lovely other dinosaur are old look at them
Together they stand on the hill telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs
And that my friends is how it is with love let us all be dinosaurs and lovely other dinosaurs together for the sun is warm and the world is a beautiful place
check out pablo neruda and ee cummings, both poets, but this is my favorite that we're using:
i carry your heart with me - ee cummings
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)
We sat down last night and picked these two (thanks to the awesome files Mrs. Penguin has up there!) I love them!
The Promise
~ Eileen Rafter
The sun danced on the snow with a sparkling smile,
As two lovers sat quietly, alone for a while.
Then he turned and said, with a casual air
(Though he blushed from his chin to the tips of his hair),
"I think I might like to get married to you"
"Well then, she said, "Well there's a thought,
But what if we can't promise to be all that we ought,
If I'm late yet again, when we plan to go out.
For I know I can't promise, I'll learn to ignore
Dirty socks and damp towels strewn all over the floor.
So if we can't vow to be all that we should
I'm not sure what to do, though the idea's quite good".
But he gently smiled and tilted his head
Till his lips met her ear and softly he said
"I promise, to weave my dreams into your own,
That wherever you breathe will be my hearts home.
I promise, that whether with rags or with gold I am blessed
Your smile is the jewel I will treasure the best.
Do you think then, my love, we should marry - do you?"
"Yes" she said smiling "I do".
From A Natural History Of Love
By Diane Ackerman
Love. What a small word we use for an idea so immense and powerful. It has altered the flow of history, calmed monsters, kindled works of art, cheered the forlorn, turned tough guys to mush, consoled the enslaved, driven strong women mad, glorified the humble, fueled national scandals, bankrupted robber barons, and made mincemeat of kings. How can love's spaciousness be conveyed in the narrow confines of one syllable? Love is an ancient delirium, a desire older than civilization, with taproots spreading into deep and mysterious days. The heart is a living museum. In each of its galleries, no matter how narrow or dimly lit, preserved forever like wondrous diatoms, are our moments of loving, and being loved.
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I need help coming up with some good non-religious ceremony readings. (I already have the religious ones were going to use.)
Care to share some of your favorite readings/poems?!