(Closed) Not acknowledged for help w/ bachelorette party. How would you handle?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I would start by saying something like “did you enjoy the b party? hope that round of drinks helped the fun! wish i coud have been there since planning it was so much fun”.. i sould fish for complements lol, if she doesn’t give any, then tell her that you’re a bit hurt

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Talk to her NOW. Tell her exactly how you feel – that you wish she’d put you on the thank you list and acknowledged your unseen, but certainly “felt” presence. This needs to be cleared between you or it will never get better. Don’t let your friendship fester. Your friend likely doesn’t realize that she left you out like that; it’s probably a stupid mistake that can be easily cleared if you both want it to be. 🙂

Post # 5
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4824 posts
Honey bee

@kingytobe: Similar to what she said.

Someone else already made it known, but I would follow up.

 

Post # 8
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1920 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Maybe I’m in the minority. I wouldn’t talk to her. I mean it sucks she didn’t thank you. Maybe it was an honest mistake and its good that a bridesmaid corrected her. But did you plan and pay for the bachelorette to get recognition or because you love your best friend. While it would be nice to have a thank you I just don’t see how you would approach this or what difference it would make now.

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