Not as excited about my vacation anymore :(

posted 3 years ago in Travel
Post # 4
1817 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m sorry you feel this way! Is there a reason you are not invited along with them when they go out?

Post # 5
4812 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think it’s a bit odd that they don’t invite you to go along when they go out. I think your FI should make more of an attempt to make sure that you’re having a good time, even if it means not always going out “tearing up the town” and maybe doing some things you would like to do on the trip.

I would just be very upset if my DH did that to me!  I think you should talk to him about it.

Post # 6
9525 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Maybe suggest some activities that you all three could enjoy together? I mean I can see both sides. I like spending time wiht my guys, but I don’t get to see my cousins very often, so I’d be excited to see them as well.  It’s hard if you don’t like similar kinds of things and that may be why your fiance enjoys time with his cousin, he gets tondo things that you don’t enjoy. nothing wrong with that. But maybe try to find some stuff you can do together as well!

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