- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
Ok ladies, i need the comfort of full figured gals everywhere, My sister is being pretty bridezilla-ish right now,i complained about her BM dress choice, and while i know its not my wedding my opinion shouldt really matter, but we originally picked the BM dress because two of her stick thin bridesmaids who dont have to worry about breasts or curves fiting into it liked how pretty it was online….well then she picked a peacock theme, and decided on black BM dresses that had sizes available for EVERYONE in the bridal party, myself who is chesty and curvy….im a 38DDD and my bust bra-less and squishin em down will NOT fit in this dress, and according to thier size charts a 6X!!!! measures 47 inches in the chest, 40 in waist, and 56..5in hips….which uhhhh major problem, my bust like a 54 bra-less….with the bra i would have to wear with this thing it is more like a 56 ish….the tummy area would possibly be snug as i have exactly 53 in hips….so basically i can be shoved in this thing like a sausage, since even with a minimizer and duct tape, and spanks, baring a breast reduction and lipo i can not wiggle into this dress, and breathe/not rip it to shreds with the curves, the other large gal in the party may be able to fit, as she has like 45 in bust, and has a way bigger tummy then me, but with the shapers she wears she may be able to make it work, the dress can only be let out like 2 inches in the bust, period, and none in the stomach….sooo here is my problem, my sister is being very bridezilla-y actually the defenition of it right now….since her two on again off again friends who are size 3s whom before getting engaged she had not spoken too in 3 YEARS! really “love the dress”, but when i told her couldnt fit the dress, she demanded that i was lying and just didnt want to be in her wedding because i am making it up that baring a tub of crisco, the empire statebuilding and a stunt team, I am not gonna fit in even the biggest dress they have available….and my sister made it clear that she is not picking a different bridesmaid dress, period! even though her wedding is in march and we could get the black ones to fit us and go with her theme, and that are more affordable to all of her bridesmaids, at any time, not special order it….
soo ladies, my sister isnt wasnt willing to budge in this moment, so do i step down as a bridesmaid, because there is no phyiscal way i can fit in the dress and 3 of the 5 bridesmaids have already ordered their non-returnable since they were on sale dresses….
does this make me a horrible person??? even if i loose weight at my skinniest, when i was like a size 11 in hs, my bust was still over the 50 in mark with minimizers, which due to the cut of the dress i cant wear, she has said she wont change and i can not get a similiar dress that will exactly match, because it has to exactly match, all the other bm dresses so that is out of the option….
so does this mean since the other dresses have been ordered, are non returnable, and the other girls like them, and i am the last one to order because i work all the time, and got the email last, that i am ousted from the wedding to keep the peace with the other bridesmaids who want the dress…. : (
seriously bummed right now ladies could use some love here ladies….
here is currently the bain of my existance….and did i mention super low cut in the back….in a hideous fuschia pink,ok its pretty but pink and me dont get along…..did i mention i have rosacia issues….