Post # 1
Has anyone had moments of not being excited about their wedding?… I am super excited to be married/ the ceremony etc. but I just have weeks where I just don’t even want to deal with the rest because I think no matter what I do it just isn’t going to be how I want. This isn’t the ideal time to be getting married for me but I really want to BE married, so we are doing it (I guess I should add he really wants to be married too haha). But… I am in college full-time and living 2 hours away from my apartment that I have with my Fiance in order to go to school monday- friday. AND I am not a whiny person but it sucks, like really really SUCKS! We are supposed to be getting married and we don’t even have the option to get a house together- I’ll still be living 2 hours away for atleast a few days of the week and we will still be sharing our apartment with his sister since it makes it more affordable to have the 2 apartments…. ugh. Sorry about venting, this just isn’t how I wanted to spend the months before and after my wedding…. I had an amazing summer with him but then school started and I am away all the time and I hate it, but I am going to a great university and will have good career possibilities when I’m done… is anyone else having trouble getting excited?
Post # 3
Ugh I know how you feel. I am super-excited for the ceremony, too, but the whole wedding thing altogether just feels like such a chore! I think it has to do with where you are in your planning, though, because I remember when I started I was very excited!
Then I found out things cost money, ha ha, so I’m sure that also put a damper on it for me… when you move from fantasy to reality it’s not so ooo rah rah any more.
That does suck that you have to live so far from your FI. How much longer do you have in school? Maybe keep track of how many days left (even if it’s a lot) and cross a day off every night before you go to bed. That’s satisfying! 🙂
Post # 4
Honestly, I did not enjoy planning the wedding for the most part. I was happy to be getting married, but wedding planning was… very painful at time. Both my husband and I were very relieved when it was over.
Post # 5
I am hoping I can change my schedule around so I only have classes Tuesday-Thursday so I can be home more of the week with him…. because I still have 1.5 years left to get my Bachelors annnnddddd I want to go to grad school. haha. Such is life… we are hoping to move somewhere after my bachelor’s that isn’t a college town but offers a good grad school and good job options for him. The count down idea is good! I really can’t wait to just go back to our normal life.