Post # 1
I am so not excited for my wedding. I dont know why all of a sudden but we paid a lot of money for ou wedding so far, including my mom and aunt who is helping me. I feel like if we just got a JP and eloped it would be easier, and cheaper, and less stressful. I dont mean to be a drag, but its just getting to me. I want to call off my wedding and just get a JP but FI’s dad is sick and wants to witness his son get married, which is why we up’d the date to June. Anyone else feel/felt like this a couple months before the big day? I hope it will pass soon..
Post # 3
I felt the same way the last four months until my wedding. Everyone was stressing me out, we had little money to work with, i was crying all the time Because my then fiancé wasn’t helping me with anything! But it all passed. My wedding day came it was the best day of my life. I had a great time with no worries! I think it’s normal to feel this way at one point or another. Hold strong it’ll work out!
Post # 4
@adillon1: thank you. I sure hope so, I just feel like saying NO to everything, cancelling the venue, caterer, everything and just going to a JP tomorrow and get it over with.
Post # 5
I see a lot of brides-to-be when getting their gowns, etc. and there are some who are happy and looking forward to it and then those in your situation where you could do without all the fanfare. You are feeling and experiencing something normal. Life will feel normal again once that special day arrives.
Post # 6
i definitely know how that feels. there were days when i just couldn’t wait for my wedding to be over. but your day will be here before you know it and it will be worth it!