(Closed) Not feeling like a bride…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My wedding is August 4th.  I have been stressing over the guest list.  People are adding whoever they want without asking.  My Future Mother-In-Law inviting her friend’s kids to the wedding who don’t even know the groom and didn’t ask us.  The past two weeks I wish we would have eloped.  I sometimes feel like the wedding is more stressful than it needs to be.  I hope I get over my funk and start to feel like a bride as friends and family fly home for the wedding.

Post # 4
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Been there! Not with the Mother-In-Law issue, though..At a point i was so sick and tired of all the planning i felt like you “I just want it to be over”. Take a small break if you can. Relax as much as you can.

 Now, i go through my wedding album and smile adoringly, because all the little details I worked so much for did pay in the end – they combined into a lovely, romantic and special wedding day. My mum didn’t help much and unfotunatelly my Mother-In-Law passed away in March so i could not count on her love and encouragement..my sister gave me hell a couple of weeks before AND on the night before the wedding! I had a last single-day/night very, very weird, full with saddness and i remember thinking “I can’t wait to marry my love and go back to my own beautiful family and life” – we spent the last day a-part, though we’ve been living together for 7 years.

What you’re feeling it’s quite natural. It’s YOUR wedding, not your MIL’s!!!!!

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