(Closed) Not feeling like having sex but he sweet persuades you and it is awesome!

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

It’s happened to me a couple of times, yes, but it’s usually the other way around for us. He’s not hard to persuade though 😉

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

This happens to me almost everytime that I am not in the mood and we end up having sex. I don’t know why, but it’s often some of the best that we have (imo, not sure if he feels the same way all the time).

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

This happened to me for a long time. I switched my BC to a lower dose, and I have been having NO problem what so ever.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

This happens a lot… which is why I’ve learned to pretty much go with it whenever he wants it unless there’s a good reason not to… because even if I start out not feeling it, I’m always glad I did. I can’t think of a single time FI has “persuaded” me that I’ve not gone “good thing I went with that” after. 😀

I don’t have a terribly low libido, I’m just very easily distracted, so I’ll think about instigating sex, and then somehow end up thinking about something else and forgetting for awhile. I usually instigate oral (on him) more than anything else. I enjoy doing it and I love the reaction when I surprise him with it, so that’s conditioned more to be the thing I start.

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