Post # 1
So I haven’t done crap or been thinking about it. I dunno…my daughter’s first birthday is next month and i’ve just been busy avoiding the wedding stuff. I’m not excited about it. My fiance’s grandmother took over everything and it doesn’t feel like mine anymore, I kind of gave up on the whole thing. I feel like I am just suppose to show up and that’s it. It’s almost like I have my own wedding planner but a wedding planner from hell with sh**y taste lol. Anyone else in the same boat?
Post # 3
I understand your situation. I wanted a summer wedding but my fiance and future MIL wanted a late fall/or winter wedding…prob to invite more people. Fast forward, I set the date like last month for Oct and the future MIL still wants to push the date back! There were a couple of variables that I dont feel like explaining but basically, I was feeling like my fiance and his mom forgot who the bride was. I got to the point where I didnt even want to have a wedding. I have my moments when I still dont want to have one, but I think I’m better now.
That being said, at some point the grandmother has to give. STILL BE EXTRA NICE BUT…his grandma had her day. Its time to have yours 🙂 Good luck!
Post # 4
Yes ladies, it’s YOUR day! Don’t let anyone spoil it. There’s a difference between being accomodating and being a floormat.