(Closed) Not how I planned this

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
1765 posts
Buzzing bee


Are you going to lose your venue if you have FI’s family member proceed with the ceremony?  Would it be better to just keep smiling graciously?


Post # 4
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think you shouldn’t have to be around anyone who isn’t going to make you feel happy on your wedding day.  That goes for guests, vendors, and officiants too.  If you don’t like your officiant’s attitude, then by all means replace her!

Post # 6
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Hmm…I wouldn’t want someone marrying me who I didn’t feel was fully supportive or wouldn’t make me happy.  Since you have the option to choose your own officiant, I would probably go that route and use someone you know and love!

Post # 7
2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I say choose your own officiant! Also, I think a 4:00 ceremony will be beautiful!

Post # 8
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i think it’s time you look for another officiant, you don’t want to be reminded of prior rudeness on the day of your wedding, or possibly deal with more of it…

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