- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
I’m hurt & a little confused =(. 2 different friends I considered to both be good friends did not invite me to their weddings and FB says they are now married (1 happened about 3 weeks ago, the other last weekend). I am embarrased & confused about how sad I feel! I saw their tagged wedding photos (how I found out the weddings already happend) and almost started crying.
I was close with each of them a few years ago, but we moved away & they didn’t really keep in contact with me, but when they did they wanted to catch up on things. Now, I don’t feel important in their life anymore. I know weddings can be expensive & not everyone can invite everyone they want to but I thought we were good friends (I am picky about who I consider a good friend & it takes a lot for me to consider you a good friend). Heck, I even asked them to be my bridesmaids (they were not able to come), that’s how much I loved these girls!
Now, I don’t mean I get upset/sad/offended when I’m not invited to everyone I know’s weddings, just those 2 girls were such a HUGE part of my life & me in theirs… I just don’t understand it and why I’m so affected by this! I should be happy for them!