(Closed) Not inviteing cousin to my wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Invite her, unless you aren’t inviting other cousins. Singling someone out is generally not a good idea, especially when it is just that you don’t care for their personality rather than that they’ve done something really horrible to you.

Post # 4
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1872 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Invite her.

If she creates a scene,

a) it’ll never take attention from you and she’ll just look foolish

b) in weddings there’s only good moments and moments that become good stories. So whatever she does, it’ll be something laugh about in a few years.

Post # 5
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260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011 - The Providence Biltmore

I have a similar situation with a family member.  I’m not inviting her.  Long story short she calls her siblings drunk at all hours of the night telling them in-depth lies to get attention.  Everyone knows she’s obviously got issues and I am writing her out of my life. I’m not letting the family I love become stressed over her at the wedding.

Post # 6
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I really feel for you. I’ve got an uncle like that and I don’t want to invite him. My mom is making me though. Good luck…

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