(Closed) not married BM and GM walkimg down the aisle together

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: would you walk down the aisle with a SO before you were engages or married?
    of course!! I dont believe in bad luck : (32 votes)
    34 %
    no way!! : (2 votes)
    2 %
    never even heard of it being bad luck : (59 votes)
    63 %
  • Post # 3
    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’ve never heard of it but it makes sense I guess.  I know a couple who was in the same wedding but my friend was the Maid/Matron of Honor and her bf was a regular groomsmen so they didn’t walk down together.

    Post # 4
    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    No I never heard of such things. I don’t based my choices as irrational nonsense like that, however ask his girlfriend because she could be offended if she walks down with someone else.

    Post # 5
    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - The Skinner Barn

    I have never heard this before and googling it produced zero results. I’m pretty sure your mom just made this up lol

    Post # 6
    10565 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I’ve never heard of this, and had a Bridesmaid or Best Man and Groomsmen that were dating walk together.  They have since broke up though!  lol I still don’t think it was luck, they were together for more than a year after our wedding.

    Post # 8
    1966 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’ve def never heard of that. 

    Post # 9
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’ve never heard of that either.

    Post # 10
    1722 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Wow then my relationship is screwed lol. We’ve walked in two weddings together and are now planning to walk in our own so it can’t be that bad of luck.

    Post # 11
    3340 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

    I’ve never heard of a bridesmaid walking down the aisle with her significant other in someone else’s wedding…

    That seems inappropriate.  Shouldn’t the girls walk in by themselves and then walk out with one of the groomsmen?  Are you saying that her boyfriend is a groomsmen?

    Post # 13
    150 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Just a fun comment….

    I was in a wedding in May 2012 and my boyfriend at the time was added (rather last-minute) as a groomsman.  We walked down the aisle together…….3 months later we were engaged!  Certainly wasn’t bad luck for me! Smile

    Post # 14
    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    @Christy42213:  Don’t see why that would be inappropriate? I was planning to get married before my best friend, and her Fiance was a groomsman while she was my Maid/Matron of Honor so likely they would have been walking together. Some people do the girls separately and some have the attendants walk in pairs.

    Post # 15
    191 posts
    Blushing bee

    In my case I hope not, lol. considering my SO and I will be walking together in a wedding this spring.


    @Christy42213:  It’s not inappropriate. My SO and I are in a wedding this June. the couple are really good friends of ours. SO is a groomsman and me a bridesmaid, we are paired up together. some have the bridesmaid walk alone, others in pairs.

    Post # 16
    7992 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

    Never heard of it, and it makes no sense to me… if it is generally accepted that Groomsmen and BMs who are not dating/married are walking down the aisle for the purposes of symmetry, why would a dating couple be bad luck? Very odd.

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