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Not planning to order a dress -- bad idea?

posted 4 months ago in Dress
  • poll: I'm planning to buy a sample or used dress, not order at a store...
    Not a good idea, too risky : (8 votes)
    13 %
    Great idea, I don't see why it wouldn't work out! : (50 votes)
    83 %
    Other, I'll explain in the comments. : (2 votes)
    3 %
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    So bees, here's the deal. While I'm always reading happy posts by those of us who have happened to buy a sample dress, I'm actually kind of planning to either buy a sample dress in person, or buy a sample or used dress online. Basically, do you think this is crazy and/or not going to work? If it helps, I am usually a bridal size 10, and for the most part, the way a dress looks in the stock photos is almost exactly how it looks on me.

    What do you think, am I putting myself on the train to crazytown, or being reasonable?

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    I have seen alot of beautiful sample dresses and I totally would have bought one had I seen a particular site before I ordered mine.

     
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    love108    September 2014  

    I would think as long as you gave yourself enough time for alterations and started looking ASAP so you don't get stuck just not finding THE sample for a long time, I would say go for it.

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    @tksjewelry: Yeah, there are a lot of great sites out there. I'm a little addicted to preownedweddingdresses.com at the moment.

    @love108: Oh, I'm started! That's a good point, maybe I can talk to some local alterations places ahead of time and find out how much time they usually need. Most dresses I've tried on, the main alterations I would need would be taking in the bust and some form of train removal or bustling. Hopefully not a big deal.

     
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    kala_way    May 28, 2011   Manhattan Beach, CA

    Yep, if I'd had more time and realized all the options before I ordered my dress I definitely wouldn't have gone the route I did. Sounds like a great idea. Good luck!

     
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    Radiant Bride    August 2012   Washington, DC (Wedding in Maryland)

    I agree with PP.  As long as you give yourself enough time to find the dress and alterations to be completed, you will be fine.

     
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    pccl    November 10, 2012   Kentucky

    I wanted to buy a sample dress and I did.

    I did not voice that to anyone before hand...but went dress shopping open minded and tried on EVERYTHING.  Without knowing it, the dress I fell in love with was a sample sale, discontinued and I got it for over 50% off.  Which is why I WANTED a sample dress, because I knew that some of the samples for sale are discontinued and you get them for reduced prices.  I wasn't against ordering a dress either, but I was very happy to get a sample.  Also, there is no shock when you get the dress and it is different than the one you tried on (not a mistake in the dress, but the size you ordered and a brand new never been tried on vs tried on many times, KWIM?).

     
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    colli459    December 28, 2012   Baltimore, MD

    Absolutely a good idea. I actually bought my wedding dress in the Classifieds section on weddingbee! Several shop owners all over the country will, from time to time, post samples that they're willing to sell for x amount of dollars. Just be sure to ask for actual photos of the dress if you plan to order online. I got a Maggie Sottero Megan for $300.00 plus $30.00 shipping! Couldn't be happier. It came with the original tags and certificate of authenticity. 

     
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    ThePrincessMaggie    November 5, 2011   Iowa

    I bought mine off the rack and it was a larger than a sample. It was a great price and I wouldn't have been able to find anything else that cheap without ordering a bridesmaid's dress in white. This way, I was able to have a real gown! :)

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    @pccl:  Exactly! For some reason, the idea of waiting and not knowing what the actual dress will look like really bugs me.

    Thanks for the feedback, everyone, this is really helpful! I would also be happy to hear from anyone who thinks it's a bad idea, this doesn't have to be all reassuring or anything.

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    Bump for daytime bees!

     
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    Ms.GoodEarth    May 25, 2013   Los Angeles, CA

    As long as you give yourself enough time, this should work out great!  I bought my dress pre-owned from a fellow Bee!  I LOVE my dress!!

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    I bought a sample for mine. I'm about where you are - I had an aggressive consultant manage to stuff me into a size 8 or two, but really I was in the 10-12 range. Almost every dress fit or just needed to be snugged in with clips. (I seriously thought I was going to bust those size 8s).

    That having been said.. I'm not sure how much money I saved in the end, because the alterations needed to take it in are at the high end of what I anticipated. But I liked knowing exactly what dress I was getting.

    One thing - samples are sometimes beat-up. Mine was in pretty good condition, but the beading did need work and a stain removal. See if the salon where you get the dress will do that for you, otherwise, you'll need to factor in that expense.

     
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    LittleRiver    October 13, 2012   NYC

    I think you are in good shape in terms of size.  Most of the samples I tried on were bridal size 10.

    I just wanted to add to the PP that certain materials are more likely to show wear and tear from being taken on and off repeatedly than others.  The dress I ordered is tulle, and I absolutely would not have purchased the sample--it was pretty beat up.  I also noticed that embellishments, such as flowers, tended to be smooshed on the samples.  On the other hand, all of the taffeta dresses I tried on were still in pristine condition and could definitely be worn.  As long as you don't have your heart set on anything too delicate, I think you will be fine!

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    @atalante:  Good to know. I have been to one store that really hadn't taken care of their samples, but others (including a consignment store!) where they were in great shape.

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    @LittleRiver:  I hadn't thought about that! Dang, too bad I don't like taffeta more.

     
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    tosca    June 1, 2012  

    I went to a sample sale at a high end store recently and saw some AMAZING deals. I didn't end up buying my dress there because I had already fallen in love with another dress, but I think the brides who did got great a great deal on their dresses. I saw Jenny Packhams going for $1800 and a $10K+ Monique Lhuillier going for $4K. You could always get adjustments, provided your size isn't too different from the sample size (don't they say 2 sizes is the most you can go?).

     

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    mine was a sample dress and fit amazing and I am a size 18 (PS at Davids bridal of course):D

    Its all about finding the right dress! 

     

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