Not sure how to deal with my sister

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
7725 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@jbbs1222:  I advise to not expect any wedding help from her at all. So long as she’s got her dress and available on your wedding day, that is enough. And then she can stand in the MOH position – not because she helped with your wedding, but because she’s your sister.

In fact, no MOH or bridesmaid is required to help with your wedding. It’s nice if they do of course, but not obligatory.

Post # 5
Member
244 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would agree with Paula that you probably shouldn’t expect a whole lot of help from her. Have her as your MOH for pictures and as a nice gesture but plan the wedding stuff with your other bridesmaids who live close enough to help & who aren’t dealing with as much stress. Be kind and compassionate to your sister she is proably going through a lot.

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