(Closed) Not sure what to do or say to MOH

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Can I ask why you haven’t picked up the phone instead of relying on email? Emails do get lost (especially if they have attachments), sometimes go to spam folders, sometimes get missed. Is there a particular reason why you have not called and spoken directly to her, instead of via technology? I know we have all become dependent on technology, but this is your wedding you are talking about! You need to call and speak to her!

Post # 5
Member
2641 posts
Sugar bee

Well you already explained how you felt she was being rude at her own wedding.  I’m kind of thinking explaining how you feel over her behavior now will fall on deaf ears.  It soundsl ike she either doesn’t care, doesn’t agree, or thinks you’re being a ***** for bringing it up.

I might try calling (and potentially leaving a message) saying that since you haven’t heard from her about ANYTHING, that you wanted to check in to see if there are any issues or concerns regarding the wedding.  That you’re concerned shemight not want to be in it.  If she calls you back hash it out.  If she doesn’t let her know that the you’ve taken it as a response that she doesn’t want to be in the wedding. 

If you’re pretty laid back about the wedding, I guess you could just keep sending her the e-mails and just see if she shows up to the wedding…

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