Post # 1
Any other bees out there not using condoms(maybe using a different for of contreception) and SO is finishing in you?
If so what do you do about the aftermess?
I used to use tampons to absorb it but I learned in Nursing School that sex can make tiny tears to the vaginal wallls (very sensitive membrane) and the bad stuff from the tampons could leach into your lady parts, so I stopped doing that, & suggest you do too if you are doing that now.
Now I am just letting my panties catch it or using a panty liner(most often), sometimes it takes a day for it to all get out.
BTW, I am on my last pack of BC, nervous but we are thinking of TTC, soon
Post # 3
There was a good post about this about a month ago!
I usually just go to the bathroom after and clean up with toilet paper, sometimes I’ll take a shower.
Post # 4
Toilet paper, then a warm washcloth for both of us. Needless to say, we wash our sheets quite frequently. 🙂
Post # 5
When we didn’t use condoms he would just pull out he never finished because he didn’t let it get that far. Although the one time he did it was just on my leg and he got me some tissue to clean up with.
Post # 6
well I have an I.U.D so he finished inside of me… Way more pleasurable for the both of us, and the best thing to do is pee after adn to catch the residual stuff wear a panyliner for a little while…
Post # 7
@Vegan:what? you had sex but never let him finish?
Post # 9
J usually finishes inside or in my mouth if it’s oral. It’s rare that he ejaculates on a body part of mine even though we’ve done it before.
Post # 10
@DesireeAnne: How do you handle taking it in the mouth? I have never been able to do it because of the taste….
Post # 11
@Anxiouspeanut: To be honest, it really doesn’t bother me. Maybe he tastes better than some men do? It all has to do with diet as well. But I know when he does ejaculate, it seems like it just goes down easily for me. I never really cared to give oral sex before him so it was new to me.
Post # 12
I am not on any kind of BC and we have never used condoms. Nor are we trying to concieve. (But if anything happened it would be okay with both of us) We use the pull out method lol. He pulls out before and finishes in different areas on my body depending on the position we are in. Then I just clean it up with a towel.