(Closed) not wedding related, but need some where to get this out!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Sounds like their father needs to grow up! I’m sorry you and your boys are going through this, you really shouldn’t have to. I’m sure in time things will pan out.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry to hear this!  I hope everything works out and your ex realizes what he’s doing before he really hurts someone else, or himself.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

I’m thinking good thoughts for your boys! What a crummy position their father put them in.

🙁

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@farmgirlnfarmboy:  Oh, how frustrating for them to have to wait and be stressed out about the situation again.

I have to say, though, what brave kids you’ve raised – it takes a lot of guts to do the right thing (especially as kids!) when it involves someone you love, and they did it. It’s an awful situation for them to have been put in, especially if this is not the first time they’ve encountered him abusing alcohol and acting in violent and unsafe ways. Unfortunately, as I’m certain you know from experience, people who have problems with alcohol have blinders on when it comes to how their actions affect those in their lives. Thank goodness your kids have you and your husband in their lives as positive forces and good role models.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I feel bad for your boys this must be so hard on them. Hubby needs to accept he is in this mess because of him and nobody else. It’s easy to point the finger and very hard to accept our faults. I wish the best for you and your family.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2013

  • I meant to say ex Sealed 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Sounds like your ex is a real class act. But seriously, I’m glad you’re no longer with him and I’m glad that you’re raising your kids to have good heads on their shoulders and do the right (and safe) thing.

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