Post # 1
Anyone feel like nothing in their life is going right? Sure, FI is amazing but other than that everything else is falling apart… wedding plans, friendships, in-law relations are tense. I don’t know what to do anymore. Everything is so crazy and nothing seems to make sense anymore. How do you cope? How do you push through when every other minute something else goes wrong? Its like adding salt and alchohol to already open wounds.
Post # 3
Awww, Im sorry to hear that everything is going wrong! I havent had any majors go wrong, but a few minors. We are making our own invites, and when I called Micheals to ask about the kind of paper we wanted, the lady told us it was onsale, and they had some but not enough. She also told us that if we ordered the paper while it was onsale, we would get it all for the sale price. However, when we went into Micheals the next day, they didnt have any of the paper we needed and it wasnt onsale, she gave us all the wrong information! So of course we were disappointed, but we ordered the paper anyways! Also, the day I was supposed to go and pick up my dress ( i knew the date ahead of time and would have liked someone to go with me, you know to share my joy) and my mom got told she had to work overtime, my maid of honor was in the poconos on a vaca with her hubby who recently got home from the army, one bridemaid was in another state to see her brother, and the other one was working crazy long hours! So, the night before the pick up day, my fiance and I went out to his fathers cabin to visit him and his wife. My fiance’s step mother and I have always had issues! We DONT get along at all!! Anyways, whle we were out there, I pulled my fiance aside and asked him if he though it would be a good idea if I asked his step mom to go with me to pick up the dress. I thought it would give us a chance to get to know eachother better, and maybe work out our issues. OH MY GOODNESS……..her answer was HORRIBLE!!!! We were sitting in the living room, and my fiance started to ask her, so I stepped in and asked and she said “UH NO, do you see that quilt over there, yeah it needs to get done by Christmas, so I dont think so” with the most attitude I have ever heard!!! Even my fiances dad was like well thats crap, you should go, but she insisted that she was not going with!! So, moral of that story, you are NOT the only one with relative issues, and problems along the way!!!
Cheer up hunny, things will get better!!!! Just dont sweat the small stuff and overlook all the relative issues!
Post # 4
I feel the same exact way. It seems like my relationship with FIance is the only thing that is solid. Lost my job (awesome job:), cannot find another, mother uninvolved and losing it, friends I thought we life timers… Are falling to the wayside. Just all the little things are disrupting me planning this wedding I was so excited about. They say getting married changes your life… Maybe that’s what’s happening? And maybe it’s for the best even though it doesn’t feel that way right now. Hope things start coming around for you.
Post # 5
I feel the same way girls! I have to change the wedding date and I was pissed but then joyed thinking I would have more time to plan and shop in India (it’s going to be an indian wedding and I have a lot of gifts for my in-laws and relatives to buy plus i need 3 wedding outfits for engagement, ceremony & reception!). I thought since I have to change the date i might as well have it in 2012 which is what I wanted anyway. This way I would have more time in India to shop, save more money for wedding and condo & work on myself (ie fitness, goals, career etc). My fiance really wants to get married this year though and I just feel so confused! My inlaws are far away & my MIL doesn’t want a saturday wedding.I’m all over the place!!!