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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    LOSING YOUR JOB! Not me, but my husband lost his job on Friday. He's the first manager they let go at the car dealership. It just sucks because we thought he had more job security than me (especially since the entire dealership was at our wedding last month). We could use your thoughts/prayers during this time. I think I'm doing enough worrying for the both of us, but I just thought I'd share with the hive since we really aren't telling many of our friends at this exact moment as we are first trying to process the whole situation.

    I still have to write the thank you notes to his former bosses. SUCK! HAPPY ONE-MONTH ANNIVERSARY TO US!

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    I'm so sorry :( That really sucks...

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Oh gosh I'm so sorry!  It must be stressful.  At least he's got you for support, emotional and otherwise, he'll certainly need it.  I hope he bounces back soon. 

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    Thats terrible!  Hang in there!

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    I'm so sorry, that really does suck!

     
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    Sorry to hear that, hopefully your second month anniversary will bring better things (like a new job) your way.

     
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    Janna19    June 7, 2008   New York

    I am so sorry to hear that!

    My husband got laid off 6 months after our wedding.  While it was really stressful, it also really brough us closer together and made us even more of a team.  He absolutely needs your support and will need to feel even more needed by you than normal (I found that a loss of a job makes a guy, especially, need to feel needed by his partner)

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    Sorry to hear that. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he find something soon!

     
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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    awwww, best wishes to him on finding a new job...try to enjoy the time together as much as possible under the circumstances

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    Im sorry to hear that!  Hang in there!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I'm sorry to hear he lost his job!  Keep you chin up, hope he can find something soon!

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    I'm sorry =(

     
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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    Thank you all so much! He has a job interview tomorrow. Here's prayin'!

     
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    frenchbulldog    August 22, 2009   Dana Point, CA

    I'm so so sorry :(
    Good luck for his job interview tomorrow! Fingers crossed :)

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    that's terrible!  Hope your new husband will find something else soon.

    and happy one month anniversary, anyway!

    keep us posted.

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    I'm so sorry - and it's like adding salt to the wound that you have to write a thank you note to all of his former bosses. Hopefully he'll find something again soon!

    Happy one month anniversary!!!

     
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    DaisyBride    June 1, 2009  

    Thats terrible!! I've been laid off in the past and so I know how your husband feels.  Make sure he signs up for unemployment ASAP.  You guys have paid for this benefit the entire time you've been working and you should use it, it's meant for times like this!  In Maryland, eveything can be done online and the money is direct deposited for you!

     
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    Johaari    May 2008   Atlanta

    My husband lost his job a couple of months after we got married.  It got really hard for us because I worried so much.  I know it's easier said than done, but you have to stop worrying.   Have faith and be positive. 

     I know it sucks to have this happen shortly after your wedded bliss. But hey, we will all go through things in our marriages and hopefully this will make you and your husband stronger.

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I'm sorry to hear this! :(  Hang in there!

     
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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    Thought I'd send an update...

    He took a different route, just passed a licensing exam and now has 3 job interviews on MONDAY!  Thank GOD!

    Thanks for being such a great support team, WeddingBee!

     

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