- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
So today I got the second response card from someone who took the liberty of inviting a guest for themselves that was not given. We are having a relatively small wedding and only gave guests to people who were in long term relationships or married/engaged. My cousin, whoI am not close to at all and really don’t care for, is recently divorced, and has invited her boyfriend of about 2 months to the wedding.
People are completely aware of the ettiquette and just choose to ignore it and be rude. If I say something it will cause an issue in the family. If I don’t say anything I am the suker.
Also, why do people think that it is my obligation to keep others up to date on all of our plans? I got an email from FI’s aunt informing me that I should go to his grandmother’s house and give her info about the wedding and bring a picture of my dress. CAN’T HIS GRANDMA CALL ME AND INVITE ME OVER HERSELF? We usually go over there every other week or so anyway, she has not once asked me about my dress.
It is the end of the school year and I am absolutely swamped with report cards, paperwork, grading, keeping 23 fourth graders from driving me crazy in a room that is not air conditiond, oh and TRYING TO PLAN A WEDDING.
Sorry to be such a downer. Just needed to vent.