(Closed) Now that I know a proposal is imminent…

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

COLD FEET!

Just stop thinking 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

haha, I totally understand. The irony is that what you’re feeling now could be part of the reason you are a “waiting bee”, or at least this was the case for me. Finally hitting that feeling helped me cut my FI some slack during the end bit of waiting.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Oh I completely relate! It’s such a big huge giant deal promising your life to someone, and I think it would be pretty crazy to not be at least a bit nervous.  There’s a site called emotionally engaged that I think deals with this stuff (I’ve seen people on here refer others there) and I know that apracticalwedding.com has some great posts on more of the emotions and deeper issues of engagement and marriage that I have found really helpful 🙂

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Oh, I have had a couple of those “OMG WTH?!” moments in the past month or so…  I think a lot of us women (myself included) get so wrapped up in the romantical idea of the pretty dress, being with the dude you love forever, etc. that sometimes we forget that marriage is a BIG effing deal and it’s serious!  I have had to remind myself of the bigger commitment here whenever I find myself sniffling over the fact that I don’t have a ring yet, lol

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