Weddingbee boards

1. I wish I had done a trial with a few different hairstyles. I kind of settled on one  to be easy, but I constantly second-guess it after seeing it in pictures.

2. I wish my husband had more supportive groomsmen.

3. I kind of wish we had stayed in our hotel one extra night, the night after the wedding, because we were exhausted the next morning, and spent the first day/night of our honeymoon sleeping (seriously).

4. My biggest regret: Not getting anxiety meds before the big day. I suffer from anxiety, and I had a feeling I would make myself sick the day of the wedding (fear of being the center of attention), and I totally did. I missed out on spending quality time with my family and friends while getting ready, etc. I'm on meds now, and those situations no longer make me sick. Oh well! Live and learn! I felt fine once our ceremony was done.

I didn't have a bachlorette party, and I don't regret that because I would've done what I normally did with my girlfriends...which was dinner & something fun. But, me & my husband were focusing on saving money for the wedding & honeymoon & not going out and blowing hundreds of dollards on one night of getting drunk.

But, one things I do wish I didn't do at the wedding was drink as much prior to the ceremony. I pulled it together great, but some things aren't as clear to me as they should be.

As for everything else I'm pretty happy about everything! :)

I would have to say I don't have any "regrets" there were things that i forgot- like i didn't wear my garter and i should have asked someone to save a cookie from the cookie and cocoa hour (in lieu of coctails) because everyone said they were good. Overall i don't regret any decisions. I went for some things people told me not to do, and it was really wort it. we spent the money and went with chivari chairs. I struggled with that expediture because it was a lot but looking at the photos I realize it was worth every cent.

I think I'd have gone with a different photographer. WE've had some issues, missed shots, terrible posing in group shots, and now the album process is dragging out forever.

I should have had rain back-up plans for the outdoor photos, I didn't and the photog didn't suggest much, which was a shame since she has shot that venue many times.

I probably should have made the hairdresser work on my hair a bit more, but she needed to get onto the Maid of Honor's hair. My girl's didn't decide until the last minute that they wanted their hair done professionally. I actually liked my hair at the trial but than the day of.

Found a professional for makeup although I don't know where I could have dregged up one in my small hometown.

Had a First Look.

Made sure my mom had safely packed my toating glasses one was broken when it was taken out of the box to use at the reception. I don't know why my mom wasn't more careful. They were a wedding present given to her parents who are both deceased.

I would have had  a piece of my cake other than the tast I got during the cutting. I did get a piece the next day.

NOt hired the lousey travel agent we did for our honeymoon. I wish I had researched it myself. I love to research trips but I didn't have time and FI fell down with the task and suggested we go to the travel agent his friends had used.

I wish I had bustled my dress before our introduction, I didn't and then when I went out to have it done, my Aunt had trouble with it even though we had praqcticed at the seamstress's and it took 20 minutes. I think everyone must have thought I fell in the toilet or something.

@Bubblybride: I also have NO regrets whatsoever about my DW... People gave us a hard time for it, but I feel that when you do what you truly want, there's no way you can regret it!
I had some regret about my hair, but my husband loved it, keeps talking about it without even knowing I had hair regrets, so it's all good!