- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
and regarding all the posts I had on here about anxiety, sucky parents, stressful events etc…
My mom never came through, she didn’t dress me, but luckily I have an amazing mother in law who at one phone call from my husband, telling her “She’s losing her mind, her mom didn’t show up to help her get dressed and she’s stressed out” ran as fast as she could to our room, to zip me and and make sure I was ok.
I have not one picture standing near her or with her, except the family portrait, that I won’t even post here, and probably won’t print.
My little sister, apparently was also celebrating her Anniversary with her boyfriend of 2 years at my wedding, she didn’t show up to rehersal dinner, didn’t get us a present, didn’t compliment me or have anything nice to say,
AND to top it all off got mad at me for using a wedding cake vendor that she wanted to use for her wedding
and when my other sister gave me a present, she exclamined “oh thanks for stealing my present idea”.
an present that she never gave us….
an imaginary wedding that hasn’t happened yet, and she’s not engaged.
the whole time I planned my wedding she talked about her imaginary wedding and how I was stealing her “pintrest” ideas , and anytime I tried to share with her details of mine, she would just talk about hers again.
my mom and my little sister, never came dress shopping with me for the gown, and then showed up two weeks before the wedding so I could accompany them dress shopping for the dress my little sister was going to wear for her wedding.
also, not her fault but at the reception my little sister choked on an app, and my dad (not her dad) had to perform the hiemliech(sp)?. He then was so upset he cried ad left for a while. There was total panic and we called 911, and then he was able to dislodge it.
she also has a full body rash, that made her left to the ceremony (her and my mom and step dad), becuase they had to stop and buy her benedryl.
My dad showed up not even in his suit with no place to change and took 30 minutes out of my time to get ready stressing me over calling my sister, his ex wife anyone who would let him change in their room, he also had my aunt in tow, with curlers in her hair who needed to get dressed…..even though I called him for WEEKS trying to prepare him for what he needed to do…he kept reassuring me he was all set.
He also made a speech and left, while I wasn’t even in the reception.
My step dad, tried blowing out all the votives that were part of my centerpieces for no reason…untill my mother in law caught him and yelled at him.
I think that’s it.
now I can breathe again.