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  • poll: What do you consider your title to be?
    I'm a Mrs on everything! : (54 votes)
    63 %
    I'm a Mrs. on some things and a Ms. on others : (17 votes)
    20 %
    I'm a Ms. : (14 votes)
    16 %
    other : (1 votes)
    1 %
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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    Do you refer to yourself as a Mrs. or a Ms?

     

    (Spinoff from a post I saw in the names forum)

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    Def a Mrs., although honestly it's really rare I ever have anything to use it on lol

     
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    Ree723    July 9, 2011   Australia

    I'm definitely a Mrs but sadly, I legally still have my maiden name.  As I'm in the midst of the immigration process to Australia, it's way too complicated to change my name legally.  Also, trying to change my name in the US whilst I'm in Australia is an equally massive nightmare, so I will keep my maiden name legally, but go by Mrs Married Name socially. 

     
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    caitlanc    September 12, 2009   Western Slope of Colorado

    I'm a Ms.  I'm having a hard enough time identifying as Caitlan NewLastName when I hear other people say it and we're going on two years!  (At least seeing it written feels normal.)  Mrs. NewLastName feels REALLY weird and I don't identify with it at all unless J is the one saying it.  

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    I'm a Mrs. But honestly, I don't know when I've ever had to write or say "Mrs."

     
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    Knubbsy-Wubbsy    July 30, 2011   Central Texas

    Mrs but if you go by the freshman in my section I'm just "the married one", only those who know DH and I call me "Mrs. DH". I'm sure I'll get "Ms" by some of my profs this semester. My name has been changed on all university things and with SSA but still my maiden name with DPS (should change tomorrow).

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Mrs. all the way!

     
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    peaches13    July 9, 2011   Texas

    Mrs!  Though some of the students still say Miss out of habit...but at least they get the new name right.  :-)

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I would never be a Mrs.  My marital status is no one else's business.  I am a Ms.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I'm a Mrs. and I'm quite excited to finally be one!

     
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    I'm definitely a Ms.  - I kept my last name, so that's likely why I feel that way.  I don't mind getting Mrs. Hislastname on stuff - and actually think it's sweet when mail arrives that way.  But, my identity is rooted in Ms. MyLastName.  Not sure it will ever change.... 

    I guess I feel like I have dual citizenship right now :)  equal parts MyLastName and HisLastName :)  

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    I'm a Mrs. for sure! I haven't gotten the sealed license in the mail yet, so I can't go down and change my name officially, BUT I will for sure be Mrs. on everything!

     
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    organizedbride11    November 11, 2011   Illinois

    I am not there yet but I cant wait to be a Mrs.

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    I'm a Mrs., and very proud of it!

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    I'm definitely a Mrs. and I love it :)

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    I kept my name, so I'm a Ms. I don't mind that much when we get informal things with Mr. and Mrs. HisName written on them because then it's kind of fun, but anything that just involves me needs to be Ms. MyName.

     
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    misskoala    July 23, 2011   married in Georgia/living in Portland, OR

    Mrs. on everything!

     
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    Kant    June 30, 2012   PA

    Not quite there yet but I will be a Mrs.!

     
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    Kant    June 30, 2012   PA

    Not quite there yet but I will be a Mrs.!

     
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    Melini    April 2, 2011   Northern CA

    Melini mostly.  But, if I must, Dr. before.  Dr. after.  But if not that, Ms. before, and Ms. now.  Where outside of grade school and addressing wedding invitations does the Miss/Mrs./Ms. get used these days?

     

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