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 I am having 3 bridesmaids, 3 groomsmen, 2 flower girls and possibly one usher for a 120 guest wedding.

I think it depends on your wedding size if your having  a 200 + guest, I believe it's fine to have  a wedding party of 6-7 BM and groomsmen each. IMO anymore than 8 each is going a little too far, I would have a lot of trouble paying for that many and organizing it all. My MOH had 7 in her party for a 180 guest wedding and it was  a little crazy even then and she regretted it, saying she wished she had cut down to the people that really really mattered. She was unable to buy them all that she wanted too, and her BM's were pretty needy, every one of them had special requests which put her in a tough situation. But she did not have a wedding coordinator, so that may have made a huge difference.

Wish you luck in whatever you choose!