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The bride might have requested it to make sure there was enough food for everyone to begin with which I can understand (especially when people pile their plates sky high with food and half of it gets thrown away). However, I would think that after everyone went through once and there was clearly excess food people should have been able to go through again.
That's weird. I have been to buffet style receptions before and once every guest had been through the line once, guests were free to make as many return trips as they wanted. At buffet style receptions, the vendor usually keeps the buffet replenished for a agreed upon amount of time and usually prepare extra food (usually 10-20% more than what was contracted) to make sure the everyone gets full and things don't run out.
That is really weird!
Did they know before hand? Because I think that would encourage gets to pile their plates uber high with food the first time around!
I can understand asking that guests go through only once until EVERYONE has filled their plates... but to deny anyone seconds is strange.
I think one of the highlights of a buffet meal is that your guests can take more of what they love & be extremely satisfied with their meal!
I usually take a tiny bit of everything my first trip around & if something was fantastic I'll grab it for seconds! haha I'd be extremely disappointed finding out no seconds after the fact...
I would be disappointed too. I think its great to make everyone wait till everyone's had firsts, but after that, you should be allowed as much as you like.
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My sister was telling me about a wedding she went to the other night that had a buffet dinner and she said it was rather interesting and awkward for the guests. She mentioned that the food was delicious but that guests were only allowed to go through the buffet line one time per person, which she and others felt defeated the purpose, especially when there was a ton of food left over. When asked, the servers said that it was the bride's request. Then wouldn't a plated meal be a better option in that case? To me, that seems really weird. What are your thoughts on that type of thing? Would it bother you that much as a bride for people to fill their plates more than once, especially if there is alot of food leftover that you may not be able to take home due to state health regulations?