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NWR: Anyone bored and want to find me a dress? ;o)

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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I need a dress and none of my closet (or my typical tastes) are going to suffice for this event.   In a few weeks, I am going to a henna party.  Not a henna-themed party, but an actual traditional henna party for my Pakistani friend who just got married.

    Many people will be dressed traditionally, but she stressed that this is not a requirement for people not of her religion, heritage, etc.  This is a Muslim event so I do need to dress conservatively.

    So these are the requirements for the dress:

    -cannot be black or white

    -no cleavage (this is particulary tough for me as I am large-chested and mostly everything creates cleavage)

    -dresses have to go to your knee (I am 5'8" and a 34 inch inseam, so a lot of stuff is shorter than this on me)

    -has to be appropriate for this type of event.  I'm going to be sitting on floor possibly, getting henna done, etc.  So a bubble-hemmed cocktail dress would look sort of out of place

    The below is the type of thing I was thinking...but this dress is way too short for this event.

    So if anyone's looking to kill some time today, enlighten me!

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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Those are some tough requirements....it's hard to find something "longish" but not too long or short. I'm tall and busty, too...i think this may work? plus--it's not dowdy!

    http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3017447/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6020250?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6020250&P=1

     

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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    How about this? http://www.jcrew.com/AST/Browse/WomenBrowse/Women_Shop_By_Category/dresses/patternsprints/PRDOVR~17535/17535.jsp I love the neckline on it and it looks long enough. I do NOT love that the model is wearing socks with heels... is this a new trend? Can we kill it?

     

    This one is a little less dressy, but would be more comfy for getting down on the floor:

    http://www.jcrew.com/AST/Browse/WomenBrowse/Women_Shop_By_Category/dresses/knitdresses/PRDOVR~17881/17881.jsp

     

     

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    wine colored, modest with sleeves? Maybe too snug for your ladies

    http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3036575/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6020250?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6020250&P=2

    http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3053166/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6020250?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6020250&P=3

    These are all 41" from hollow to hem. Is red ok? i know for indian stuff, red is the bride's color

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    OO i like the second one you posted a lot. :)

     
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    TPHoliday    May 23, 2010   Seattle, WA

    I have a couple that might work for you.

    NWR: Anyone bored and want to find me a dress? ;o) :  wedding 36kc2xbrgh 1 2NWR: Anyone bored and want to find me a dress? ;o) :  wedding 361romkwih

    NWR: Anyone bored and want to find me a dress? ;o) :  wedding 35ip18telh 1

    I find if you look up work dresses, you will get the coverage you are looking for. 

    Can you do leggings like dark blue or brown or even black on those? Maybe then you wouldn't be showing your knees but still look cute?

     
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    HannahT    September 6, 2009  

    TPHoliday, where are those dresses from? Love them!

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    TP: Thanks for the suggestions!  Can't do leggings/tights because henna gets painted on your legs and arms.

    EJS: GREAT suggestions -- thanks so much!  I'm going to look into these, and also your suggestions reminded me to check Nordstrom! (We don't have a brick and mortar Nordstrom, so I always forget about it!)

    CorgiTales: Great suggestions as well!  Love them, thanks!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Oooo i hope you find something--they have a great return and exchange policy. I actually found this dress http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3028728?Category=&Search=True&SearchType=keywordsearch&keyword=ruffle+wrap+dress+in+All+Categories&origin=searchresults for myself while looking for you, so uh, thanks for making me spend my money today Laughing

     

     
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    TPHoliday    May 23, 2010   Seattle, WA

    The three dresses are from igigi.com and the last one is spiegel.com.

    The igigi dresses fit for large chest so the line should still be long enough for you Hot Child. I have a 31 inch inseam and am 5'6 and I usually get them taken up so they go above my knees.

     

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