(Closed) NWR: At what point can I cancel plans?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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20 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2012

WEll, if it has actually been 2 weeks and she hasn’t said anything… I would just make other plans. Even if the “other plans” mean just a night watching films with your FI.
It’s really rude not to respond to things like that!
But I wouldn’t throw away the friendship over this. Maybe she was/is going through some kind of problem at work/home.

Post # 5
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

If you had another offer to do something you really didn’t want to miss out on that would be one thing.  But don’t make other plans just to spite her.  Just let it play out.  If she never responds then just go out with hubs and don’t stress about it.  If she does get back to you then go ahead and go through with the plans that she suggests but I think it would be fine to say something like “Oh, I sort of figured things were canceled since I hadn’t heard from you, but sure, we are still up for it”.  Let her know that you didn’t appreciate the way it was handled, but it’s definitely not something worth losing a friendship over.

Post # 7
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811 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Ha ha ha I have no answer for you, but I’ve totally been there.

Its like “it was a good idea at the time, but then things got complicated”

Usually what I do is just wait and see. Pathetic I know.

You can send a final email saying we still on and see, but its upto you.

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