(Closed) NWR: Concerned about best friend.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1519 posts
Bumble bee

I’m sorry 🙁 I would explain to her that your feelings are hurt because you feel like a third wheel on their dates and that you would love to spend time with her and her new guy, but in situations where you don’t feel like a third wheel (double dates?) and would also like to spend time with just her.

Hopefully, her horomones wear off soon and she comes back to earth. Unfortunately, when people get into new relationships sometimes they end up in their own little world and they lose their damn minds. It’s not healthy, but it’s hopefully temporary. Feel free to vent! PM me if you need to.

Post # 4
1306 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow, that sounds tough. While reading your post I got the feeling that when she became a mother/wife, she lost herself and was catering to the needs of her hsband and child. This may have made her feel like she was living in isolation, a prison of sorts (I had similar feelings while with my child’s father). Now that she is divored, it seems that she has begun acting out, maybe trying to find herself again. This behavior she is exhibiting that is out of her norm may just be her searchig for happiness.

I give you props for telling her that her behavior os making you uncomfortable. I can tell you hold her near to your heart, and I encourage you to not give up. Ask her to see you alone….just for girl talk. Be open again and tell her that you are concerned about her. She may not take you seriously, she may try to push you away, or she may take you seriously and tink about her actions. I hope this all works out and I am glad your friend has a friend like you to care about her.

Post # 5
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

I think that these are one of those situations in which you have to give her her space, and if you feel so compelled, help her pick up the pieces when this crashes and burns. 

Post # 6
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That really sucks to have to deal with their pda’s. I tend to think this is just a fun rebound for her, maybe even just her way of dealing with now being a divorced single mother.

This relationship most likely won’t last too long, so try to just cut her some slack and maybe limit your outings until the rebound blows over or calms down.

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