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    amariem25    October 2009  

    Way off topic - but I've been watching Ghost Adventures on Netflix instant play lately.  Some of the episodes really freak me out (others are just funny).  I have always believed in ghosts and would never go in a place that is supposedly haunted.  My thought is if there are angels why can't there be the exact opposite?  My husband doesn't agree.  He would spend a night in these "haunted" places without any problem.  I think he's crazy!

    Do you believe in ghosts?

     
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    MrsDibs    April 16, 2010   Columbus, OH

    Just a question to clarify, are you saying ghosts are the opposite of angels? I thought those were demons. I studied a little bit of paranormal/supernatural stuff and I thought ghosts were the souls of people who use to be alive.

    Anyway, I do believe in ghosts, to me there is way too much evidence out there that supports the existence of ghosts.

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    Nope, I don't believe in ghosts, but I do think our brains are powerful enough to assign meaning to things through what we know. I've caught myself in this more than once in regards to being afraid someone is breaking in - when R or my other roommate were at my apartment overnight, I would sleep easily. But the rare nights they were both gone, every little noise and I was SURE it had to be someone breaking in. 

    Just my two cents. :) 

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    oh no I'm not saying they are opposite or anything (I guess I overgeneralized above).  I just feel that if one exists then the other probably does too!  And I agree - there are probably demons, and then there are ghosts which are the souls of people roaming the earth still.

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    i dont disbelieve

     
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    galacticpony    December 11, 2010   NYC

    My family's friends lived in a haunted mansion (a very famous one in Los Angeles) and lasted 2 weeks, hahaha. That place, according to my parents, was legit haunted. Like, furniture-was-moving-haunted. Scary! I've never had a paranormal experience. The closest I've been is sleep paralysis, hahaha, which doesn't count.

     
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    jduck84    August 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I think I try not to, otherwise I freak myself out. My parents have fantastic ghost stories from when they were still living in Vietnam, like haunted boarding schools and such, eek!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I do believe.  Once I was looking outside the door and I saw a flash of our dog that died years before.  It was gone when I looked back again.  But I think if I ever saw a ghost of a person I would completely freak out.

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I believe b/c our bodies produce energy and it cannot be created or destroyed..so when we die that energy is transferred somewhere?

    Also after my dad passed I had a wierd situation happen...it was a hot summer day about 90 or more.  Not a wind anywhere.  I had hung earlier in the tree beside my father's grave some wind chimes.

    I was there with my friend Cyndie, and she came with me b/c I was really sad and it was the day after he was interred. 

    Out of nowhere the chimes blew and we couldn't help but look in the direction the chimes were blowing.  As we were looking towards another section of the cemetery (in East Memphis), there was a woman in the distance and she looked to be crying over a grave.  I remember having a wierd feeling and feeling as if I should go over to her and comfort her.  My friend Cyndie thought I was nuts.  Ijust felt my dad suddenly and felt I should go to that lady and that's what he would have wanted me to do.

    Anyway, I walked over to the lady and Cyndie told me that I was invading the woman's privacy and so on.  We get within 10 feet of her and realize that this area was where the children were buried.  The lady looked up at us and looked at my friend and said "Cyndie is that you?  I was just praying that somebody come and help me understand this.  And here you are".  They were in the same Sunday school class and she had just lost her newborn.  My friend gasped and we of course prayed with her.

    Still to this day, i feel it was my dad's sweet spirit that led me to her and to do an act of kindness.  In a metro area of over a million people, we found a woman who was praying for somebody to help her.  I had just lost my dad and had a son who had been in the icu so I understood, and Cyndie was in her sunday school class.  

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    I voted no, but I'm more like a sorta-maybe. I believe in spirits. I've had a few experiences where I felt a presence when I was alone, but I've never been scared. My grandmother has had similar experiences like mine after certain relatives had passed away. 

    IMO a ghost is something scary! I've never been scared by whatever the heck was "with" me.

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    I put other. I do not really believe that there are white floaty things that stick around and haunt places. But, I'm not ready to say that there is nothing more than what we see. I do think there are some spirits/angels/paranormal stuff but I choose to not really think about it because it freaks. me. out. :)

     
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    Bamboo    June 2010   Midwest

    I don't now, but I sure did when I was little. We lived in a house where the previous owner died in the attic (he was an old old man). Lots of crazy stuff happened and my 6 year old mind was absolutely convinced it was him. My mom believes in ghosts, my little brother was equally scared and convinced...so yea.

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    Yes, I definitely believe. I think we (humans) have an energy that can’t really be measured or explained (whether that’s a “soul” or not, I don’t know, but I think there is “something”). I have known things before there is any way I could have known them – I knew that a loved one had died before there was ANY possible way for me to know it. I woke up that morning and told my mom that X had died. She didn’t believe me, told me to get ready for school. She found out later that day that he had died the night before. I had a dream the night before about it….I talked to him in my dream. There is no way to explain what I knew.

    I have been told that I am “spirit sensitive”.  I don’t know if that is true, but I don’t doubt things that I have known, and experienced, that were paranormal, and had no rational explanation.

    For kitschy ghost-horror, a friend of mine and I stayed once in the Lizzie Borden House…the house where she killed her family (she likely did not kill them, but that’s a separate diatribe). We slept in the room in which her step-mother was killed. There is a presence in that house, several in fact, and they can be physically felt. It was an interesting weekend.

     
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    Minutiae    May 2011  

    Well, I guess I do, but that's one of the few things I keep my nose way out of. I have this odd fear that my ESP tendencies would attract attention from the wrong crowd. :P My SO firmly believes that the spiritual world crosses path with the physical and is terrified of ghosts. And I've heard too many stories to not believe in ghosts. Buuuut, I leave them be and they leave me be.

     
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    Rosiebear    September 4th 2010   Somerville MA

    No, I don't belive in ghosts.  I do, however, feel that we have neurological reactions that cause us to "feel" and "see" things that are not nessisarily there.  Our minds are pretty amazing that way.  Especially when our neurological experiences bring us comfort.  I belive that the concept of ghosts began out of our human desire to understand what happens after death, it's easier to think that our loved ones are among us after death then to think they are gone for ever.  I find peace thinking about their organic energy and carbon sinking back into the earth to create and feed new plant and animal life. 

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    I belive in angels & demons, but not ghosts as in trapped souls wandering the earth.

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    No.

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    I definitely do, and if I have to pee in the middle of the night, I run from our bedroom to the bathroom because our building is old, and I'm terrified of seeing ghosts.

    The Sixth Sense? Yep, pretty much the most terrifying movie ever in my opinion.

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    Thanks to this convo I had a hard time going to bed last night (alone!) in my 100+ y/o house. Thanks girls... heh.

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    I totally believe.

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    I do - because I have experienced.  I think we all have different "visions" of ghosts.  The concept is terrifying (to me anyways) but to some people it is oddly calming. 

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    I believe in ghosts/spirits.  I've not witnessed human entities but when my beloved dog passed away in April 2008 there was definitely some strange things occuring in our house.  And for two weeks following his death, I saw him several times out of the corner of my eye.

    Several months after he died, we had a BBQ in July.  It turned out to be the hottest day of summer thus far.  In June I had a landscaper come and plant a tree/garden area in memory of Bosco.  I also got a memorial stone with his name to place near the tree.  All of which was to be finished for this BBQ.

    The day of the BBQ it was hot and sticky.  No rain in site...nothing.  No sprinklers running, no water at all.

    Before guests arrived, I decided to take a few photos of the garden.  When I uploaded the photos onto my computer and looked closely, I noticed a mist above Bosco's memorial stone.  Do you see it? 

    My mom thinks it's in the shape of a paw but I don't know.  I think it's pretty cool and hope it was him.

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    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    Absolutely. I've had too many weird experiences to not believe in them. Plus, it's rather arrogant for someone to say that something for certain does not exist when the universe is so vast that there is no possible way to know what all is out there in, paranormal included. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs, but you also can't say for a fact that millions of people who have experienced such a thing are automatically lying for attention simply because you don't agree, particularly when the experiences are unwanted to begin with.

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    my rational side says, "i'm with rosiebear on this," but then, i feel like i have had too many weird experiences not to question whether science may actually be able to tell us the whole story at this time. i don't know. i doubt i will ever be able to fully commit to either side.

     
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    I agree with okqueenbee word for word.

     
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    Superstitions    July 25, 2009   TX

    I don't believe in ghosts in the traditional sense. I do believe in angels and demons though.

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    i'm actually sort of surprised to see that so many people believe in angels and demons but not ghosts. can i ask why...is it a biblical/religious thing? just wondering because it's totally opposite my beliefs, if i believe anything exists it's a ghost of some sort, definitely not angels or demons as we've defined them, so i'm guessing y'all have some well-grounded reason for believing what you do and i'd be really interested to hear it.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    More or less but not in the traditional haunting sense. While I haven't experienced anything personally, I know that strange paranormal things happen and the energy of people can be trapped.

    I also feel like when something really disturbing happens to someone, a sense of that can be left behind.

    I tend not to believe in things I cannot see or rationalize, but I also try to be open minded enough to think there are things we don't knwo and cannot understand. Much like how everybody thought an atom was the smallest particle, then when it was split open and all these electrons and neutrons and protons came out.

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    I’m intrigued by the angel/demon thing as well.

    I like what Rosiebear said about our neurological experiences bringing us comfort. Our brains are powerful and I think a lot of “paranormal activity” is rooted in ourselves and our brains looking for answers to complex questions.

    My FH is actually finishing writing a book about ghosts (in part), and one interesting things is after the Civil War, sightings/reports/stories of ghosts SKYROCKETED. Ghost stories became a way to deal with death, especially deaths that took place far from home and away from family.

    That said though, like I said in my earlier post, both FH and I believe in ghosts.

     
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    bree72    December 31, 2008  

    I believe, but mostly because I have experienced a lot. So has everyone in my immediate family. I also believe in angels and demons.  I have been convinced since the day that she was born, that my youngest sister has an angel permenantly attached to her.

     
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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    NWR:  Do you believe in ghosts? :  wedding Iwanttobelieve

     
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    I have had far too many experiences to not believe.  Sometimes on a daily basis, depending on the place I am and how I allow myself to tune into the environment. 

    And while DSM IV may say schizophrenia, the fact I have been able to communicate things to people with no prior knowledge during these events is far too coincidental.  I believe as scientists, we may try to compartmentalize experiences we cannot explain as neurological disorders to provide comfort for a variety of psychological reasons.

    That's not to say shows such as Paranormal State, etc. aren't overly exagerrated. 

    Tit for tat. :) 

     
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    Superstitions    July 25, 2009   TX

    Okay, since people are wondering, I'll explain. I don't believe in ghosts. I believe that they're demons called familiars. This is not to say that those who have had final goodbyes from relatives in dreams are lying. I know someone who went through this and completely believe him.

    I have had experiences with the paranormal before. I've never been hurt, just scared. There were definite presences in my dorm room back at school and in my parents' house. Weird things happened too, not like objects moving around, but noises at times and occasionally shadows and what not.

    I'm not sure I would say it's a religious reason that I believe this way. I am a Christian, but for a while I was incredibly skeptical about the idea of ghosts.

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Mr. Bee, you're in a goofy mood today!

    I don't at all, but my coworker does so I have to be REALLY careful about when I make fun of ghosties (as we call them at work) or she'll get mad!

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    I'm just a skeptic.  Whatever it is in people that makes them believe in things they cannot see/have not witnessed firsthand, I wasn't born with that gene.

     
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    AOEBuckeye    June 26, 2010   Alpharetta, Georgia

    Absolutely!!  Too many personal experiences for me not to.  Told my mom when I was 10 (expecting her to think me nuts), but I guess it runs in our family.  I couldn't go on the top floor of my FI's frat house w/o something happening to me.  It was built in the early 1800's and I could tell you how many are there still and a general idea of how they passed and then one of the old old alumni confirmed it true.  And it's so foreign of a concept for me to acknowledge as I'm an engineer.  But I guess it's not too far off base- foundation of physics is energy is never created nor destroyed...

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    Yeah, from personal experiences I believe in them. We lived in an older house when I was growing up and it was just a creepy place sometimes. Once I remember I was on the computer playing solitaire and I was maybe 10 or 11 and the computer was a new thing to us at the time. Well, I saw a shadow on the screen (like a person's shadow, not a sun type of shadow that covered the whole screen) and I thought it was my younger brother peering over my shoulder and I told him to go away and leave me alone. After saying that, I turned around and looked and he was nowhere near me. He was actually heading down the stairs on the other side of the house! My mom has also told me a story of when they first moved in, she was down in the basement doing laundry and she heard some footsteps upstairs and heard someone call and ask if anyone was home, but when she went upstairs, nobody was there. She thought it was my dad at first, but the house was empty.

    I have an aunt and uncle that like to go ghost hunting as well. I'm not sure if I totally believe in all that, but it's interesting.

     
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    MzThrowBac2B    December 2012   Tx

    I do!

     
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    Rosiebear    September 4th 2010   Somerville MA

    Mouse. You and me both.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i do. we're getting married in a haunted hotel. i didn't know that when i picked the spot, i just like that it was old and historical. i'm sure my fi will do something silly to try to scare me. and it will probably work.

     

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