Post # 1
when you have a weird or bad dream about your SO and some of the feelings carry over in to your day?
I know I can’t be the only one!
I’ve been really stressed and emotional this week, so we’ve been arguing a little bit in real life – nothing bad. Then I go to bed and have a really intense, intricate dream that culminates in me interrogating him about cheating. I was so upset in dreamland that I woke up at 5:45am real time (which NEVER happens). I couldn’t even get back to sleep.
Until I forced him to spoon me because “I had a bad dream and he was a jerk” 🙂
Post # 3
@berybery: Haha I’ve been there! Once I was sick and was having crazy dreams about SO cheating on me for like a week! One of those nights the dream was sooo ‘real ‘ that when I finally woke up I turned over and punced my SO in the arm! I felt SOOOO bad lol. He woke up like “WTF BABE” But he understood, reassured me he ISN’T cheating and spooned me till I fell back asleep haha! Poor SO lol
Post # 4
@FutureMrs.browneyes: LOL I don’t think I’ve ever punched FI, but there’s still time haha. I remember having a dream awhile ago in which he was a huge jerk, and when I woke up the next morning I was in SUCH a funk. Like for hours I was all, “Don’t talk to me, I’m mad at you!”
My sister did the same with her boyfriend once but she held on to this secret grudge for DAYS and then finally blew up at him because he had cheated in her dream. But she’s also a little bit dramatic at times haha!
Post # 5
hahaha I have done this with previous SOs! I also knew a crazy girl in grad school who acted out on her boyfriend because she was really insecure and had these dreams all the time? She would ignore him and yell at him! I always felt so bad for the guy!
With DH I’ll dream he’s hurt or something, so I’ll wake up and squeeze him extra!
Post # 6
YES!! I’ve had cheating dreams, break up dreams and dying dreams. They’ve all impacted my mood for the day because the dreams have seemed so real.
Post # 7
Hehe my worst was I dreamt that DH had a kid he hadn’t told me about. Problem was we’d had a d&m the night before so in my dream we were in the same place having a convo about his “daughter” – I woke up pissed at him because I was mad he hadn’t told me about her before he’d moved in with me (we had only been living together about a month at this stage) – honestly it took me about half an hour to realise it wasn’t real – but I spent a good hour lying there seething hehehe
Post # 8
Hahaha oh how I hate this. The worst dream was the two of us being out for dinner and this other girl shows up, saying he invited HER on the date. And all his friends were there saying he should pick her over me. I think what made it the worst is that the other girl in the dream was a lab TA I had in university that was an absolute bitch.
Post # 9
Hell yes. I try not to get angry cause I know it’s a dream. But the enxt day when I’m retelling the story I start getting pissed at him and sometimes a little loud…as if he ACTUALLY did something. He thinks it’s funny. 🙂