- 3 years ago
My SO and I have been together since we were 16 and I’m now 26 and my SO has a cousin who he sees as a brother. Former marine and served in Iraq right after the 9/11 incedent. He’s not a bad guy. We all mutally hang out all the time but lately things have started to irritate me and I just want people’s thoughts and opinions on if I’m in the wrong or not.
His cousin has had a severe drinking problem and has had mulitple DUIs. I’ve always thought he has PTSD but because of 6 DUIs he now has had his license suspended (for 10 years). Anytime they want to hang out my SO has to pick him and then take him back home.We live 40 min away so it’s not like it’s down the street. What has been irritating that sometimes my SO does’nt even show up back home and will stay the night at his house but I have no Idea he isn’t coming home until I wake up in the morning or he will tell me at 11pm hey I’m about to leave and then 3 am comes and he finally shows up back home.
We’re in the process of trying to buy a home and I feel like his cousin is more important than anything. Almost like he’s a single bachelor. He was just officially diagnosed with PTSD and he says he will never stop hanging out with him which I’m not preventing anything like. Needing point of view from other people.