NWR: I think I'm in love

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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9220 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Relat:  Have you thought about just being honest with him and telling him exactly how you really feel?  Maybe he feels the same way about you!  It’s worth a shot.

Post # 4
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744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Relat:  I think you need to find out if he feels the same way.

 

I will say it would be pretty easy to love someone that you haven’t seen in two years because you don’t have to put up with him!  You can’t put him up on a pedestal and then be able give a real guy that shows real interest in you the time of day. 

Post # 7
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1582 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@Relat: It seems to me like something else must be going on here, if you’re trying not to “disrupt his life.” Your original previous post didn’t indicate that he’s dating anyone or is married, but I wonder if something like this is the case? If it isn’t though, and he’s a free agent, talk to him about it!!

Post # 8
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744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Relat: I would not throw out the I’m in love with you card.  Invite him to visit you.  In my experience a man that is interested in me will do just about anything to spend time with me.  Men that are not will string you along and only see you when there is nothing better to do.

How far apart do you live?

I don’t know that I would express my feelings for him yet.  I believe you need to spend a little time with him to make sure you are certain you feel that way.  Two years is a long time to go and you may not be remembering certain things about him that make him a good relationship match for you.

Post # 10
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2042 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Relat:  Sounds like youre confused….yep! Just text him, ask him about his day.  Tell him about yours.  You dont need to text him 50 times but several times a week is a good start.  I mean if I was single and I liked a guy and I wasnt sure he liked me back I would text him and flirt with him. 

Post # 12
Member
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Meet up for dinner or something and let him take the lead. If he is interested in you, he’ll make a move.

Post # 15
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9220 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Relat:  I understand you’re trying to be considerate of him and are looking out for his feelings.  But remember that your feelings count just as much as his do.  Talk to the man, don’t be afraid to.  The worst that can happen is he doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, but at least then you’d know the truth. 

It’s better to know one way or the other than to live in limbo.  You don’t have to blurt out that you’re in love with him, but you can talk to him and ask some fairly direct questions. 

Post # 16
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2042 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Relat:  Hell learn to put his phone on silent. 

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