(NWR) Is this inappropriate?

posted 2 weeks ago in Beehive
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Yes.  That’s inappropriate. 

Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

Yuuuuuuup. Not to mention, probably awkward for that guy’s wife! 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Idk. Some women would be okay with that.

Personally, I think it’s kind of odd, but my FI would never do that. 

 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Creepy AF. 

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

inappropriate, but i could see a few exceptions.  is the woman really super fit?  have the husband’s talked about the woman’s fitness before?  maybe she is a triathlete, runner,  body builder, etc?

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Sounds like something that would happen at a state dinner with this administration, to be honest.

Post # 9
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Busy bee

Horseradish :  Are you a body builder or did you lose a ton of weight? One of my clients told me that I looked like I was in great shape. he was just trying to be nice since I lost 30 lbs. I thought it was very nice but it was a very non creepy delivery of the message and I looked dramatically different.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

beevincent18 :  some people are ok with just about anything. But the behavior described in the OP is never ok in a professional setting. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Horseradish :  My FI would have whipped around and said what did you say?! Not cool with me, or him.

Post # 12
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Helper bee

That is definitely creepy and inappropriate. I would feel so uncomfortable to be sized up and down like that by one of my FI’s colleagues. How did your SO* feel about it?

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Yeah that’s inappropriate except for maybe if you’re in the fitness business. Either way it’s awkward for the guys wife.

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