NWR- Lights on? Lights off?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you like Lights on or off!?
    Lights on! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    109 posts
    Blushing bee

    TGIF!!! Yeah, for me, I like only a little light, not too much, plus it’s more romantic that way! 

    Post # 5
    2207 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    DH likes the lights on… completely. i hate it because i’m kind of self-conscious, but when i try to convince him to turn off the lights and he starts saying how i’m so beautiful, sexy, etc that he just wants the lights on because he likes to see me… i usually end up giving up the argument pretty fast because i feel so flattered LOL. i’d much prefer just a TV on in background or adjoining bathroom light on or something like that, but i’m at the point where i’ve just gotten used to the light on.

    Post # 6
    5392 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2014

    We usually have sex with the lights off, but the only reason for that is that usually we have sex before we go to sleep, or even in the middle of the night. We’ve had sex plenty of times in broad daylight lol so it isn’t an insecurity issue 😉

    Post # 8
    373 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    It’s nicest with a lamp on, or dimmed lights. But that’s just because we find full lights way too brigt at night in general. 

    Post # 9
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Dimmed lights for sure. Not completely dark, but with a little bit of light.

    Post # 10
    347 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    DH likes lights on – but I feel more relaxed (and therefore have more fun!) with lights off!

    Post # 11
    3344 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

    Dim lights here too. Basically anything that isn’t bright light like in a hospital or pitch black darkness is fine.

    Post # 12
    35 posts

    I tend to like lights on during night sex.  But I think we have sex more during daylight than night.  We do some morning quickies and often have sex once we get home from work, while it is still light.  For the next month or two it’s dark at 6, but soon enough that will be back.to normal.  

    Post # 13
    2315 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We have sex with lights on. Not the main light but a bedside one. To me, lights off means it is time to sleep!

    Post # 14
    3248 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I hate lights off…. You can’t see anything! We have always had lights on, even before bed.

    Post # 15
    657 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    Lights on!

    He says im beautful and wants to see me(cant argue with that compliment) and hey I want to see him as well. I have never enjoyed looking at a naked man as much as I love looking at him. Meow!

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